I have posted a couple of different threads on my relationships with two women, yes I am bi-sexual as well. I thought there was some shallowness involved with this, but now I don't know what to think. With the one I feel a very deep sexual connection on a tantric level. The other is my Submissive, I don't consider her a "slave" though she calls me master, I did give her a name but it is a good name. I have a deep psychological connection with her that I haven't had with a woman in years; I can immediately identify her dreams and tell her what they mean. I can tell her what she is wanting, with out her saying it and I am right on. I also have a deep sexual connection with her as well, though we have yet to do more than text or email. I have pictures of her, it is like her heart is laid bare before me and I am reading her book. I care for both of these ladies, I have trust with both of them and I don't want anything to happen between us to negate that trust. I am taking it slow and easy, I am not rushing, I am keeping myself focused on my health. I just don't know what to do. I also know the one doesn't want to be involved in anything more than a partnership, I want to end up being married again. Not necessarily having more children, but having someone to spend my life with, even though I know a marriage cert is just a piece of paper.

[Patagonia]

So you mean your "poly". Bisexual means male & female. Sorry I'm a bit confused.

If you are polysexual do these other women know that? Not all Dom's are monogamous.

[Patagonia]

And your submissive is strictly an online relationship?

Originally Posted by Patagonia

And your submissive is strictly an online relationship?

Pat, My sub relationship is actually moving into the direction of a bigger relationship. She is bi sexual as well and likes the fact that I am. She is open to the idea. My other friend knows that I am bi as well, she is tolerant of it, but has made it clear she doesn't went to share. I haven't explored my bi interest because I live in a community that being "queer" is not acceptable. I want to explore it and I love that my sub is willing to explore it with me when we get to that stage in our relationship. Right now I guess I am just filling some of my needs, with having sex with the one woman. I much rather be just with my sub. But until we move to that level of a full relationship, I am in a quandary. I would much rather be with my sub and both of us explore each other and our bisexual nature together. Then be with someone who though accepts me as bi, wouldn't if I were to ever explore it.

[Patagonia]

Well you just answered your own question. Exploring your bi sounds like a hard limit. You want that & being w/ a woman who doesn't understand that part is going to lead to hurt feelings.
What if you find someone next month? Will she say ok?
I'd firmly communicate w/ her your intentions so she understands them before feelings get involved. It could get ugly.