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#1
Mar 15, 2016, 04:34 AM
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So I am gender queer and recently I've started dating this girl.. Since I am a bit shy of my gender I really don't talk about it with some people, and she is in that group. Since I know she is bisexual I find it hard to believe that she can love me the same way. I prefer the pronouns he but most people use she and I don't' want to correct them. I am scared of coming out, yet a lot of people know.. How do I know if she is going to be okay with it.. and what to even tell her. I'm scared that if I go out dating as who I am it will be hard for me to find anyone!
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Mar 15, 2016, 05:52 AM
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This is tough since I've never been in this situation, but I would think the important thing is that you be honest with yourself about you. Right now you're scared of what other's are going to think and you need to be comfortable with yourself. You are you, regardless of labels and words and that's what's important. Dating will be much easier when you feel comfortable with who you are first.
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Mar 17, 2016, 07:48 AM
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I have to agree with Webgoji. I think you need to be comfortable with who you are first. Comfortable in your skin & what defines you.
Like the title of your thread. Turn it around. Do you know if you're ready? Do you know yourself well enough to bring someone into a relationship? Only you have those answers before you move forward.
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Mar 19, 2016, 01:21 PM
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Update: Well I just came out to her and she accepted me. Now I am her boy and no longer her girl which makes me happy. She is the first girlfriend that I've had that knows that and it makes me happy that I can be with her even though I am not that cis gender lesbian. I just got the courage and told her and I feel awesome.
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Mar 19, 2016, 02:01 PM
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That's great! I'm happy for you.
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Mar 19, 2016, 03:19 PM
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That's got to feel sooooo good! Congrats!
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"Doubt is like dye. Once it spreads into the fabric of excuses you've woven, you'll never get rid of the stain." Jodi Picoult |
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Mar 21, 2016, 06:44 AM
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