[ilikecats]

I feel like a slut and I'm ashamed. I met a guy from Tinder last night and kinda lost my virginity. "Kinda" because we only did it for a minute, and he didn't go all the way in because it hurt. But now I feel bad about myself for doing it with a guy I just met. And because I wanted to do it. I'm also making plans to meet another guy this Friday where we'll probably have sex, and I'm seeing the first guy again on Sunday. I just feel like I'm being promiscuous and bad, and the fact that it's what I want makes me feel ashamed. I know that if this situation was about someone else, I would think they can do whatever they want with their body and it's their choice. But with me, it just makes me feel like a slut. What do I do?

[Patagonia]

First thing I think is that you can't "kind of" lose your virginity. You either did or didn't. It sounds like you did.
Second I'm going to preach about safe sex & hope that there was protection used on both sides considering you just met. Casual sex is the best place for an std. Enough said.
And third is......you sound very torn ilikecats. Why? I think you need to answer that.
If you feel like you're ready to explore sexually then protect yourself, educate yourself & have a good experience.
But if you're feeling badly over the experience & rethinking why, then you need to answer that question.
Was there something in your past that has come up?
Is this due to peer pressure?
Is it hormonal?
Meds?
MH issue? Etc.

What are you trying to get or feel from these encounters?
Why are you rushing????

[Pflaumenkeks]

I agree with Patagonia
I just wanted to add:
You are not bad for wanting sex. even with strangers. This is your sexuality and your live. If you think that this is something that you want (and not just thinking you have to) and you feel ready for, then this is perfectly okay.