Breasts

I hope no ladies take offense to this topic. Well im a guy I used to like breasts alot. But for the past they just don't turn me on anymore, at all. A girl could go topless and it wouldn't turn me on. At a few random moments some may turn me on but most of the time i feel i have to force myself to be turned on by them. Does anyone have the same problem?? Im worried that i'll never be turned on by breasts again, can anyone help??

No offence taken - we all have our parts that makes us go WOW!!

First off I think we need to keep things in perspective - it the WOMAN attached to the BREAST that YOU should be turned on any ways.......

Maybe when you meet the next girl that is to be your gf or Wife it might be another part of her body that turns you on / attracts you to her.

.... some men are leg men and others are but or eyes men - it takes all kinds.

.... I myself am a LIP person - with a smile and nice butt coming in second

Do you look at much porn? In comparison, most non-enhanced human females may not excite. If you do a lot of porn surfing....lay off if fo 6 months, then look again at a live female. You might note a difference.

Also, heck...hoooters aren't the high point of sexuality for a lot of men, or women. Assuming you are over 18, perhaps, focus elsewhere? (start with necks...work south) We mostly perfer that attention anyhoo.

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Breasts really are just mammary glands, ya know!

Does a woman really expect a man NOT to stare at her breasts while talking to her if she is wearing a low cut blouse?
I find this impossible and inevitably feel like a pervert or at least like I fell into a trap!
(oh and by *stare* I mean gaze more than 2 seconds...NOT leer.)
So, yes or no?

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she wears a low cut blouse for a reason...........to show off her "assets"........

i spent the majority of my life, after age 12, with males never looking into my eyes......they shifted south as soon as they could. i HATED it. and i dressed ultra conservative, as in like a NUN......but i only weighed 100lbs.....and they were hard to miss. the older i got, the more clothes i piled on......i think i stared the "layered" movement.

it ain't the breasts that make the woman........

grt... you made me smile today... have been sick all day.. so thanks..

Having been "well endowed" all of my life.. and working in a mostly men's profession.. I just got used to the looking and tuned it out..

I guess I just didn't take too much offense.. but then I've pretty much worked on all male teams most of my adult life..

For me it's just a fact of life and part of the differences between the sexes..

I guess if I was "leered" at meaning someone totally focusing on that part of my body... instead of my face - I don't like that... but for the most part men are respectful..

operative word here is "men" not men that haven't grown up..

well considering that young guys into their twenties think about sex every 7 seconds its really not that surprising that they would be checking you out. whats worse to have men noticing you and your attractiveness, or to be at the point where no one pays any attention to you? IM talking about glances here and maybe looking back after you have walked past, not someone who is dribbling on your shirt.

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gtrplayer said:
Does a woman really expect a man NOT to stare at her breasts while talking to her if she is wearing a low cut blouse?

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No........... but then again we were not talking about that issue were we? - lol lets stick to the subject at hand my dear friend - *laughing*

sorry... I got the whole thread off track... and 7 seconds... whoa...

ok I'm done... smiling... tummy feels better..

ok, if we must get back on topic, i can't think of any valid reason why (naked) breasts would NOT arouse you if you're a male past puberty.
if they don't you don't need to read an answer here...you would already know.

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gtrplayer said:
if they don't you don't need to read an answer here...you would already know.

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Let's think here a minute....... if he knew the reason WHY he would not be asking for help -

So maybe it is like one of those strange events that takes place in life were one is a sex maniac for a few years and then all of sudden POOF - the thrill and desire are gone and one is but only left baffled and confused.........

What do you think about that scenario? - I have seen stranger things happen.

On the note of why naked breasts wouldn't arouse you if you were a post-pubescent male--and I'm not referring to Ansdr's problem--there are guys who don't like certain types of breasts, especially saggy ones. (That is, unless you're in certain parts of the world. I think Africa has areas where women actually hang heavy rocks on their breasts to try to get them to sag, because breasts that have been used to feed a baby and aged are seen as more attractive.)

I think you can become numb to things. I don't know how to explain it, but even if you don't view those things a lot, it can happen.

pc is a wonderful place to share and sometimes solve problems but we are being asked for something unanswerable, albeit impossible..no?
ansdr...your comments?

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gtrplayer said:
pc is a wonderful place to share and sometimes solve problems but we are being asked for something unanswerable, albeit impossible..no?
ansdr...your comments?

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idk, 1 day i just thought to myself, why do i like breast anyways. Then the thought kept occuring. And now they don't turn me on anymore.

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idk, 1 day i just thought to myself, why do i like breast anyways. Then the thought kept occuring. And now they don't turn me on anymore.

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Do any other parts of the FEMALE body still turn YOU on? - is yes, then no problem go from there.... we all have our parts that WOW us.

i always look at the eyes, they turn me on

I think Rhapsody was sensible ...

Is a booty attractive?

A beautiful back?

Great legs?

Good luck (although as someone with lovely bewbs - not self-proclaimed ) I almost always find favourable reactions from men.

perhaps i am a loner in thinking this...but um..why do you even see this as a problem? Ever think that youve grown alittle deeper than before as to not be immediatly turned on by something so...there....i mean ....why would you even be considering this a problem? Do you want to be immediately aroused by looking at boobs? Honestly...then the question is not why cannot i not be aroused by them anymore but why do I still want to be aroused by them...if i were you...id pride myself on being a deeper man and wanting more than just a cliche attraction...i really wouldnt waste sleep over this if i were you...but im not trying to make light of your problems either...if your really bothered by this then i suggest taking it too a new angle and really try to understand why it is so important for you to be turned on by boobs in the first place...just my opinion...good luck
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Eyes, breasts, legs, buttocks, all are wonderful things on the right woman. If you care for the person those things don't really matter.

I guess I think its kind of strange to immediatly be turned on by some random womens breasts. I mean they are just breasts. If its someone you are attracted to already I guess it is different. Breasts are there for feeding babies. Never really have understood what the huge attraction is.

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Gemstone said:
Breasts are there for feeding babies. Never really have understood what the huge attraction is.

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Correction......... In the Bible the book "Songs of Solomon" says: May Her Breast Delight Thee at all Times (talking to a man about his female lovers body).

The female breast has two duties..... to feed & nature her young and to sexually please her man with.

Men are sexual creatures by nature, therefore, they are turn on by the parts of the female that give them sexual pleasure......... just think of the response we would get if we were to be talking about "Her Secret Garden" that part in which only her lover has experienced.

Breasts are even more than to feed and nurture her young and sexually please a man. I know for me, its a huge turn on to have my breast touched, they're very sensitive. Even that area on a man is sensitive; I know I've used that as part of foreplay with my bf.

I agree with Inny. Maybe the lack of being turned on by random breasts just means you're growing...and that when you find the right woman it won't be such an issue. I know that for me, since I've found the right man, I don't get turned on by random men anymore. So maybe thats it.

Whether you acknowledge it or not, sexual attraction makes the world go round!
Not to mention survival of the species.....
So, there is no point diminishing the power of sexual attraction of females by males.
It is there, it is ingrained and believe me, men notice.
How they handle it (no pun intended!) is up to them, but you can't pretend breasts or other parts of the female anatomy are not going to be noticed and admired.
Going back to the original post, if there truly is no interest or arousal under any circumstances, then I would attribute it to no sexual desire for women.