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#1
Oct 18, 2016, 04:27 AM
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3-somes aren't as rare as they used to be, but what about 4 -somes? 2 bi couples with 2 bi couples?
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#2
Oct 19, 2016, 10:20 AM
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To me, if it's done safely and consensually, then it's just good fun. But, while lesbian sex is all the rage right now, the world is still not very accepting of male-gay sex.
In much of the reading I've done, even gay/bi woman are not very accepting. I read one article that took a poll of women for things in a man's past that were immediate non-starters when they were considering dating a man. The number 1 item was if he had ever had gay sex in his past. I think as a result of attitudes like this, couples swapping in the same bed is happening but true dive-in-and-grab-whatever-you-want 4somes are pretty rare. |
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Oct 19, 2016, 07:47 PM
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I admit that I am totally fine with gay, straight and bi relationships, however, if my BF wanted to have sex with a man I might feel threatened. I think that I could get over it if we had a strong relationship, but it would take time. I know this is foolish, and is because of my own insecurity.
And then there is stupid AIDS and VD. So we all have to use condoms anyways. Which really is a bummer sometimes. |
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Oct 21, 2016, 09:57 AM
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Honestly, as incredibly sexy as a threesome or foursome sounds to me, I know that I would be crushed by my own jealousy, anxiety and lack of self-confidence that I know would inevitably follow. I've heard people say that you have to be very secure in your relationship for this to work but it seems like its actually the exact opposite. I feel like you almost have to NOT-care in order for it to work since I think the thoughts of jealousy and anxiety are human nature in this kind of situation. |
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Oct 21, 2016, 10:59 PM
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[quote=bighands;5331921]To me, if it's done safely and consensually, then it's just good fun. But, while lesbian sex is all the rage right now, the world is still not very accepting of male-gay sex.
In much of the reading I've done, even gay/bi woman are not very accepting. I read one article that took a poll of women for things in a man's past that were immediate non-starters when they were considering dating a man. The number 1 item was if he had ever had gay sex in his past. -------------------------------------- I completely disagree. I'm a middle aged straight female and there is nothing that turns me on more than the thought of 2 bi-curious men exploring having sex together! I was lucky enough to be able to watch an old bi-curious boyfriend have sex with a few different men that we met online. (It was all safe sex) |
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Oct 23, 2016, 05:24 AM
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I would be much would be more comfortable in a FFM rather than a MMF or MMFF.
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#7
Oct 23, 2016, 11:08 PM
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Yolo, I applaud your open mindedness but it looks like you're in the minority. Here's a link to the Huffpost article. It was a 1000 woman survey and 63% said that if a man slept with another man, it would be a showstopper.
The One Thing That (Sadly) Most Women Agree Makes A Man Undateable | Huffington Post Last edited by bighands; Oct 24, 2016 at 02:12 AM. |
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Oct 23, 2016, 11:15 PM
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I see no problem in it, as long as everyone is being safe and as long as everyone consents. I think it'd be great fun
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