Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old Jan 09, 2017, 10:29 PM
ken9018 ken9018 is offline
Veteran Member
 
Member Since: Nov 2016
Location: Maryland
Posts: 533
Does anyone here on this forum sleep to feel good sexually? I'm a Christian woman and also have same sex attraction , so I have taken a vow of celibacy to live right in the eyes of God. I'm posting this because I want to see if anyone else has experienced sleeping all day and it making them feel good sexually? Anyone else experienced this?

advertisement
  #2  
Old Jan 10, 2017, 12:26 AM
Artchic528's Avatar
Artchic528 Artchic528 is offline
Supreme Artisan
 
Member Since: Nov 2014
Location: Charlotte, NC
Posts: 6,618
Stunting yourself sexually like that isn't healthy. It's also not healthy to sleep all day and night.

There's nothing wrong with being attracted to the same sex. Nothing. Go for it.
__________________


MY BLOG IS NOW CONVENIENTLY LOCATED HERE!!
[UPDATED: 4/30/2017]


LIFE IS TOO SHORT, TOO VALUABLE AND TOO PRECIOUS A THING TO WASTE!!
Thanks for this!
ken9018, NewSmoke15
  #3  
Old Jan 10, 2017, 04:51 AM
Anonymous40413
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Quote:
Originally Posted by Artchic528 View Post
Stunting yourself sexually like that isn't healthy. It's also not healthy to sleep all day and night.

There's nothing wrong with being attracted to the same sex. Nothing. Go for it.
True, there's nothing wrong with homosexuality. But neither is there anything wrong with living by a code that says there is.
Thanks for this!
ken9018
  #4  
Old Jan 10, 2017, 02:36 PM
NewSmoke15 NewSmoke15 is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Jan 2017
Posts: 40
Quote:
Originally Posted by Breadfish View Post
True, there's nothing wrong with homosexuality. But neither is there anything wrong with living by a code that says there is.
Well if you project those feelings of homosexuality being wrong onto other people, then there is a problem with it.
Thanks for this!
Artchic528, ken9018
  #5  
Old Jan 10, 2017, 02:46 PM
Anonymous57777
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
No (maybe you were dreaming about sex but didn't remember it?).
When I am tired and cannot sleep, I find that sex (any kind where you have an orgasm) puts me right out. It works better than psych or pain medications. I hardly ever nap, but sometimes I can make myself nap this way. Good sex with my partner sometimes gives me good dreams too.
Thanks for this!
ken9018
  #6  
Old Jan 12, 2017, 09:29 PM
Artchic528's Avatar
Artchic528 Artchic528 is offline
Supreme Artisan
 
Member Since: Nov 2014
Location: Charlotte, NC
Posts: 6,618
Quote:
Originally Posted by NewSmoke15 View Post
Well if you project those feelings of homosexuality being wrong onto other people, then there is a problem with it.
I agree. It's very discriminatory and very wrong to shun and shame someone for being the way they are. Many MANY young and old alike are pushed to deep depression and suicide because they feel so utterly repulsed by themselves, and it's the soul cause of the religious nuts who try to tell them they are wrong and to "repent". I am sick of that sort of utter BS. That kind of religion is just a farce, a mockery of what a true religion should be. Everyone has a right to be accepted for who they are, who they are born into being. They didn't get to chose who they love, so why shun them for it? Why is it wrong to love?

Remember, love wins!!

Also, there's nothing wrong with being who you were born as, orientation wise. It's just a part of who you are. If you're attracted to the same sex, then allow yourself to be. Don't repress it and hate that part of you. You'll just wind up in a world of confusion and hurt and isolation that way. Embrace every part of yourself because you are a wonderful person, just the way you are!!!
__________________


MY BLOG IS NOW CONVENIENTLY LOCATED HERE!!
[UPDATED: 4/30/2017]


LIFE IS TOO SHORT, TOO VALUABLE AND TOO PRECIOUS A THING TO WASTE!!
Thanks for this!
ken9018, NewSmoke15, YOLO Lady
  #7  
Old Jan 13, 2017, 09:04 AM
Patagonia's Avatar
Patagonia Patagonia is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: Sep 2013
Location: In my own little world, NO trespassing!
Posts: 4,660
To the OP. My answer is no. Sleep does not give me the same satisfaction & other emotions, feelings, highs & lows as sex does.
What is your reason for sleeping all day? Is this due to a 3rd shift work schedule? Has this been helpful to you?
__________________
"Doubt is like dye. Once it spreads into the fabric of excuses you've woven, you'll never get rid of the stain."
Jodi Picoult
  #8  
Old Jan 13, 2017, 01:40 PM
ken9018 ken9018 is offline
Veteran Member
 
Member Since: Nov 2016
Location: Maryland
Posts: 533
Quote:
Originally Posted by Patagonia View Post
To the OP. My answer is no. Sleep does not give me the same satisfaction & other emotions, feelings, highs & lows as sex does.
What is your reason for sleeping all day? Is this due to a 3rd shift work schedule? Has this been helpful to you?
No, its because I'm out on break from school and I generally enjoy sleeping. I don't think its because I'm depressed or anything.
  #9  
Old Jan 13, 2017, 02:17 PM
Patagonia's Avatar
Patagonia Patagonia is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: Sep 2013
Location: In my own little world, NO trespassing!
Posts: 4,660
So are you sleeping during the day to "feel good sexually"...can you explain that bec maybe I'm not understanding it.
Are you saying you sleep to invigorate how you feel about your sexuality? More positive? Confident? Or are you using sleep & comparing it to the chemical rush you get from sex.
Sorry I got a bit confused over what you wanto achieve.
__________________
"Doubt is like dye. Once it spreads into the fabric of excuses you've woven, you'll never get rid of the stain."
Jodi Picoult
  #10  
Old Jan 13, 2017, 08:27 PM
ken9018 ken9018 is offline
Veteran Member
 
Member Since: Nov 2016
Location: Maryland
Posts: 533
Quote:
Originally Posted by Patagonia View Post
So are you sleeping during the day to "feel good sexually"...can you explain that bec maybe I'm not understanding it.
Are you saying you sleep to invigorate how you feel about your sexuality? More positive? Confident? Or are you using sleep & comparing it to the chemical rush you get from sex.
Sorry I got a bit confused over what you wanto achieve.
When I dream something sexual and wake up, I go back to sleep and I'll usually be dreaming the same thing or another sexual type dream. So in a way, instead of me having sex, I just dream that I'm having sex.
  #11  
Old Jan 14, 2017, 02:15 PM
Patagonia's Avatar
Patagonia Patagonia is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: Sep 2013
Location: In my own little world, NO trespassing!
Posts: 4,660
Well if that works for you that sounds awesome. Like making up your own porn. Sounds cool.

I have read about people dreaming so heavily it's produced orgasms in their sleep too.
__________________
"Doubt is like dye. Once it spreads into the fabric of excuses you've woven, you'll never get rid of the stain."
Jodi Picoult
Thanks for this!
ken9018
  #12  
Old Jan 14, 2017, 03:09 PM
Anonymous40413
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Quote:
Originally Posted by Patagonia View Post
Well if that works for you that sounds awesome. Like making up your own porn. Sounds cool.

I have read about people dreaming so heavily it's produced orgasms in their sleep too.
Isn't that just having a wet dream? That's fairly common, right?
  #13  
Old Jan 14, 2017, 05:22 PM
Artchic528's Avatar
Artchic528 Artchic528 is offline
Supreme Artisan
 
Member Since: Nov 2014
Location: Charlotte, NC
Posts: 6,618
I find that when I don't regularly let off some sexual steam, as it were, my body does it for me when I'm sleeping, as it's when I'm the most relaxed. Sometimes it got so bad I'd dream I was masturbating and, at the same time, I was actually masturbating in the waking world. It was a very embarrassing situation, though, so I opt to just masturbate while awake and fully conscious so I'm all tapped out, sex wise, and my body can dream of other, less embarrassing, things instead.
__________________


MY BLOG IS NOW CONVENIENTLY LOCATED HERE!!
[UPDATED: 4/30/2017]


LIFE IS TOO SHORT, TOO VALUABLE AND TOO PRECIOUS A THING TO WASTE!!
Thanks for this!
ken9018
  #14  
Old Jan 15, 2017, 01:16 PM
Patagonia's Avatar
Patagonia Patagonia is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: Sep 2013
Location: In my own little world, NO trespassing!
Posts: 4,660
Yes I'd call them wet dreams.

Maybe that's what the OP was talking about....using sleep to feel good sexually...???
__________________
"Doubt is like dye. Once it spreads into the fabric of excuses you've woven, you'll never get rid of the stain."
Jodi Picoult
  #15  
Old Jan 16, 2017, 07:12 PM
Anonymous45521
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Quote:
Originally Posted by ken9018 View Post
Does anyone here on this forum sleep to feel good sexually? I'm a Christian woman and also have same sex attraction , so I have taken a vow of celibacy to live right in the eyes of God. I'm posting this because I want to see if anyone else has experienced sleeping all day and it making them feel good sexually? Anyone else experienced this?
Well in a way. I am not as good sexually by myself or with another if I am tired. But when I get proper sleep I am that much more creative and easily stimulated.

There is nothing wrong with celibacy either if that is her choice.
  #16  
Old Jan 16, 2017, 11:32 PM
Patagonia's Avatar
Patagonia Patagonia is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: Sep 2013
Location: In my own little world, NO trespassing!
Posts: 4,660
Sorry I still don't understand the question
__________________
"Doubt is like dye. Once it spreads into the fabric of excuses you've woven, you'll never get rid of the stain."
Jodi Picoult
Reply
Views: 2757

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 10:25 PM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.