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Member Since Aug 2007
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Aug 31, 2007 at 10:27 PM
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Every time me and my husband fight we have makeup sex. Every time something bad happens we have sex. I think his fetishes may be a little extreme sometimes but I still do it and I dont know why. He tells me that I dont have to but then it makes me feel less wanted by him, when I know that anything but the truth. I just dont like having to have sex everytime I feel guilty for something I have dont to him. He doesnt make me but in my mind I feel Like i have to. Its always been that way for me in my life like I lose someone I go and have sex, i fail on a test more sex, and if I feel like crap I turn to sex once again to make me feel better and that doesnt seem healthy to me. What can i do when I get upset so I dont feel like this. i have to admit though since getting with my husband that worthless feeling as somewhat went away! Im confused.
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Wise Elder
Member Since Jan 2006
Location: Florida
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Sep 01, 2007 at 01:02 AM
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((( HUGS ))) -
from my own experience in this department I would say that the make up sex happens due to the fact that one way guys tend to bond with their special lady is by having sex - thru the sexual pleasure of intercourse. So, I personally would not dismiss the sex part, just try to find some thing that works for you as well - as to help your heart bond back to him. |
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Sep 01, 2007 at 04:50 PM
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If a fetish feels uncomfortable to you, explain that to him and tell him that you prefer not doing it that way.......xoxoo pat
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