[jman197]

So I'm a young gay guy, and I feel like its hard to find a real relationship. I can't just be someone who says sexual things or has sex just because. I'm the kind of person who wants a real loving relationship. But it's hard to find someone who wants the same things I do that I can connect with. It seems like every guy I've been with has used me and the one guy who didn't couldn't handle my baggage. I've had a rough life and he couldn't handle that and took off. And it's hard for me to even find guys because I'm not part of the party scene or the club scene. And gay guys on the dating sites, all the ones who talk to me live far away, or just want sex. Why can't I just find a guy to spend my life with.

We're in the same boat. I'm not gay, but I definitely think it is difficult finding a partner to share your life with. I think everything in itself is a test to some degree and maybe we just have to work through whatever to get to a goal - small steps friend; they go a long way
I sometimes think things like: what's the point, etc. There are good people out there. Some will still run us over, treat us like dirt, argue, fight....so on. Don't give up. I know it's not much saying that, but I'm looking for the brightness and happiness that we all deserve. We will get there, I believe it. Much love and good energy to you!! Here's to finding what you want and need, may all of it come your way.