[MrBigD89]

I'm 13+ inches and it's very annoying so I was wondering if that's too big or not? I've been depressed about it for years because most females are scared of it

[Travelinglady]

MrBigD89, welcome to Psych Central! I've never heard of a "too big" penis. As you can imagine, most men wish they were bigger.

Perhaps if you tell the woman you are big before you get down to business, then that will help. Also, reminding them that not all of it will go in--and that if a woman can stretch to push a baby out, well....

Just lots of foreplay and maybe go slowly to start with.

[LiteraryLark]

13+? You say that like there's a chance guys give guestimations on their penis sizes! XD

[Patagonia]

If you find this annoying what do you see as a solution? I'm not sure I understand this question. Can you explain?

Also when a woman pushes a baby out it does not lengthen her vagina, it stretches the walls of her vagina in width.

[amandalouise]

Originally Posted by Patagonia

If you find this annoying what do you see as a solution? I'm not sure I understand this question. Can you explain?

Also when a woman pushes a baby out it does not lengthen her vagina, it stretches the walls of her vagina in width.

a womans vagina does expand (wider) and stretches (length) during the birthing process. it actually takes 6 weeks in general for a womans vagina to go back to its normal width and length after giving birth. some women's vagina's remain thicker, wider and longer then before they gave birth.

what determines things like this is genetics, the size of the baby, types of exercises done while pregnant, mode of delivery and how many children you have had in the past.

I have had three children and with each my insides accommodated in both width and length and never filly returned to the identical length and width as before pregnancy.

anyone can find out their measurements by contacting their OB/GYN who can tell you things like how long and wide you are and what to expect during and after your child birth process.

[Patagonia]

Originally Posted by amandalouise

a womans vagina does expand (wider) and stretches (length) during the birthing process. it actually takes 6 weeks in general for a womans vagina to go back to its normal width and length after giving birth. some women's vagina's remain thicker, wider and longer then before they gave birth.


what determines things like this is genetics, the size of the baby, types of exercises done while pregnant, mode of delivery and how many children you have had in the past.


I have had three children and with each my insides accommodated in both width and length and never filly returned to the identical length and width as before pregnancy.


anyone can find out their measurements by contacting their OB/GYN who can tell you things like how long and wide you are and what to expect during and after your child birth process.

Thank you for the information & I do understand this better. Still not sure what it has to do with the original question.
What does the OP see as a solution?

[Travelinglady]

I'm not sure there is a solution. Just make the best of what we have.

MrBigD89, given you won't be able to change, then I suggest you follow suggestions like I gave. And please try not to obsess over it.

(Men in porno flicks are known for being big. Not to suggest that you pursue that line of work....)

[amandalouise]

Originally Posted by Patagonia

Thank you for the information & I do understand this better. Still not sure what it has to do with the original question.
What does the OP see as a solution?

here is how it has to do with the original question...

poster wonders whether the penis is too big (length). other member answered replying

"Also, reminding them that not all of it will go in--and that if a woman can stretch to push a baby out, well...."

then your reply...

"Also when a woman pushes a baby out it does not lengthen her vagina, it stretches the walls of her vagina in width."

then my reply giving the info that a womans vagina does stretch in length.

all posts in thread relates to original poster in that their length of 13 inches is not too long because a womans vagina stretches in width and length.

hoped that has clarified the line of relating to the original posters question.

[Sad Mermaid]

I prefer longer sizes.

[Patagonia]

Well if the OP finds carrying around 13+ inches "annoying" I'm assuming he's looking at plastic surgery?
To say here "is that too big or not" is like a woman asking if her ***** looks too big.

[bighands]

Originally Posted by MrBigD89

I'm 13+ inches and it's very annoying so I was wondering if that's too big or not? I've been depressed about it for years because most females are scared of it

Hello, "Mr Big D", fist time poster. Too big for what?

[Erebos]

*Sexually explicit *
The average woman's vagina from opening to cervix is only 5 -7 inches so it's entirely possible the OP is having problems.
When a baby is born the cervix opens, it doesn't increase the length of the vagina only the width is this malleable.

Options, find a long term partner, take your time, prepare properly.
Try not to get overly forceful or aggressive when your about to ejaculate.
Try positions that don't encourage full penetration.
If your with an adventurous partner you could try an*l for full penetration. But do use protection. And again lots and lots of preparation and lubricant.
All the best, and good luck.

[gayleggg]

MrBigD, I had a fiancé once that was that size and it did scare me a little bit at first but it worked out fine. Lubrication is the key.

[sabby]

Since the OP has not been back to comment, this thread is now being closed.