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Nov 19, 2018, 03:58 PM
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I think about sexual acts all the time, like in every moment of the day i just feel aroused randomly and i start thinking about just this kind of thoughts, even when im at work, church or just listening to music, im still a virgin, but ive been with a guy and just almost had sex but it started hurting and i got scared and backed off, so is it that im just very sexually frustated or what can i do to like just stop having innaproppiate thoughts
 
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Nov 21, 2018, 05:36 PM
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I'm sorry you are struggling with this.
 I struggle with my own variety of intrusive thoughts. And my go-to practice for handling them is what is referred to as "compassionate abiding". Here's a link to a description of the practice in case you're not familiar with it:Relieve Distress By Allowing It: Compassionate Abiding 101 | Mindset: Perspective Is Everything And then here are links to 4 articles, from PsychCentral's archives, on ways to handle intrusive, obsessive or just plain "stuck" thoughts: How You Can Overcome Intrusive Thoughts | Dialectical Behavior Therapy Understood 9 Ways to Let Go of Stuck Thoughts 5 Ways to Free Yourself From Dark and Obsessive Thoughts Coping with Obsessive Thoughts | The Recovery Expert 
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