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Originally Posted by random1human
ive been confused about my gender identity and sexuality for year now and all ive been able to know for sure is i do like guys and i can find myself turned on by women. my gender is still an enigma but im currently kinda happy with just being androgynous, sometimes more feminine, sometimes more masculine. i do want to try to find label for it eventually since it's still rather confusing but for now i'm fine with just kind of experimenting , wearing a makeup and corsets one day and muscle shirts and heavy boots the next. can i maybe get some kind of advise from people who have dealt with gender issues? idek, i kind of just wanted to admit this to other people but advise would be appreciated as well.
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I'm far from an expert in this area but to me it sounds like you're doing what you need to...experiment...try out different facets of your identity...see what feels right for you. I often find labels limiting or even harmful but I can understand your need to have one maybe for a sense of belonging? and/or clarity? If you are very puzzled or troubled by the confusion, you could consult with a psychologist for some info. Though it does not sound like you are describing any sort of illness or disorder

Perhaps some other PC folks will have more to offer you in this area of thinking. I hope so. Take care