I met someone recently, and I can't make sense of him

I did respond.

I elaborated on what I wrote in the email. I said I don' think he's a 'bad' guy. Although it is possible that he is, I said I think it is more likely that he is simply misguided.

And I do think there could be some truth to that.

I said I didn't trust myself to not throw caution to the wind, and get myself involved with something dangerous.

I told him I didn't buy the story he gave me of how he has come to know this millionaire pornographer.

I told him that the fact that he became alarmed when he thought I had done a background check on him was a red flag.

This guy obviously can't take a hint. I had to essentially tell him that while I'm not entirely sure he is a 'predator', that I no longer trust him.

I did not admit to knowing anything about his criminal record, which as far as I know only amounts to that Halloween incident.

I even denied knowing his last name, or what his specific address is (I do in fact know both).


Thankfully, I was also able to block him on the Messages application.

...This guy can't stay away from me.

He's texted me from a different phone number, wondering why I've 'broken up' with him for such 'no GOOD reason'.


He says he had no reason to fabricate the story he did about the pornographer, while avoiding my concerns about why he is so skittish about my 'checking up' on him.


He says we are 'emotionally, psychologically & physically' ideal for one another...

That's his opinion.. and that's fine. Tell him you disagree and that he makes you uncomfortable.

How are you doing these days?