i was having a discussion with friends the other day and we were all torn on the spit/swallow argument... anyway if ppl could i would like to get an idea of others views of if swallowing is way too foul and shouldnt be done (which is what a lot of my friends thought)

[LMo]

[bebop]

hmm just don't think this is appropriate

[Cyran0]

I can't speak for anyone else but I don't mind the question Bebop. This is the sexual issues forum, after all.

But to answer the question seriously, I would caution anyone against actually exchanging fluids unless the relationship is monogamous and both have been tested. You can still do oral with condoms so if it's not your regular partner, I'd say forget spit or swallow, use a rubber.

As for with a regular partner, it's personal preference. I certainly don't regard it as too gross.

Cyran0

[LMo]

You know, I'm not a sexually conservative person, but I think what took me aback about this post is that it was in poll form. I know that nobody has to answer it if they're uncomfortable, but this is really, really personal.

But, I agree with Cyran0's answer

[bebop]

I am a pretty open person but like you lmo it really took me by surprise too. and yes I agree with the given answer. but way too personal.

i know when i posted this wood be a sensitive topic..
the poll is up for a day
the forum says open and frank discussion
i just wanted to ask the question in a safe environment after the convo my friends irl had
if yall having too much issues with it i can ask a mod to delete it
but i thank those who have contributed to it

[Britbritt89]

When I do it I make sure I take it out before anything happens. I think if I swallowed I would end up throwing it back up,but I voted spit....

[Rhapsody]

While this question may come across to some people as Way to Personal....... at least it was done in a poll form, so this way you can answer (via the poll) without giving out your name or answer.

I personally cannot answer - for there is not an option for...... Move / Pull away before the moment happens.

..... and YES< as you can see - No kind of SEX talk Embarrasses ME - for it is better to ask than to be clueless.

[blah__x]

ugh..i say i dont do it..probably never will...

not my thing.....ugh....yeah

[InACorner]

ive given oral...however it never made it to the......end....does this mean i am bad at giving oral??? How do you know if your bad or not....hmmmmm

How come "carry it into the bathroom" isn't one of the choices on the poll?? LOL

I definitely don't swallow.
But I don't spit it out right then and there.
I sort of gracefully hold it, make my way into the bathroom, and let it go in the sink.

Inny, as far as your question-- what was it that made you not able to make it to the 'end'?

I would think one could only be bad if she was doing something to make it hurt. Otherwise, as long as it is being done at all, even if not spetacularly, I would think it feels good for them, lol.

I like how the title of this thread gave not 1, not 2, but 3 names for this act. As if we wouldn't know what it is with just 1 name, LOL!!!

Sorry everyone, but I just don't believe in 'TMI'

[Cyran0]

pink, pretty much. Avoid the teeth and you're good. And while it is possible to give an absolutely stunning blowjob, it's not essential. We're grateful just for the effort.

And though it's been a long time since I've been with a guy, I always just swallowed so I could keep it off my tongue. It's not a big deal if you don't taste it. Though I must reiterate that this is not safe behavior unless you're with a person you know is std free.

Cyran0

well, one to talk a lot and to always be upfront...I swallow cos it's good for you......apparently

[Perna]

I'm with you, jinny, I need my zinc :-)

http://www.dontspitswallow.com/cum_nutrition.shtml

[heyjoe]

In my experience hand catchers are the most common, it is all good to me, as long as you keep the continuity in some form at the end.

[Raynaadi]

Yep this is frank and open alright lol.

I never got that far....um....jaw problems. Ice helped with that. I found the man of my dreams because we don't do oral at all so my dream came true. Its just too painful for me. And when I did do this, it was always in a relationship, not with a stranger. I was always too afraid of what people might have.

Oh, edited to remind everyone of our young viewers. NOT saying this thread is bad, just reminding everyone that we have young viewers on the site, so while we have frank discussions, we don't get too graphic. Not saying we've gone too graphic, ah ya'll know what I mean.

I'm glad safety has been mentioned - that is imperative for our young members to see.

[SweetSunshine]

post deleted at the request of the member.

KD

[(JD)]

Please be considerate of the younger members who read here when deciding your subject line. I personally also don't wish to have this thrown "in my face" (no pun intended here ) with a blatant subject line.

Thanks for rethinking it!

my... advice.... it is frank and open...forum.. so don't read if easy to offend....

can't be open... forum.. if "closed" forum....

and besides... oral sex... blow jobs......

...............lots of fun... "frankly " speaking.. I swallow..

always... be safe.. though...

[(JD)]

Oh I didn't say not discuss it, and I'm sorry you read that into it. I mean the subject line, it doesn't give anyone a chance to not read it.

I knew what you meant sweetie...

but... since you are easy.. "offended".... I would ignore.. this forum..

[salukigirl]

i used to swallow because i thought thats what guys wanted. then i was brave enough to ask my boyfriend and he said it didnt matter if i spit or not. he said the biggest deal is that he doesnt have to finish himself off. i dont ask for them to pull away but after a while that bitter snotty kinda stuff i gross and it makes me gag trying to swallow it lol. so i asked if he cared if i just went to the bathroom and spit it out and he said he doesnt care. he said he never really understood why guys thought that swallowing was hot. cause he makes me brush my teeth lol

[Mystry]

I'm not offended...but then I am a guy...the actual word for this is felatio...in case anyone is interested...and having the words blowjob/head/oral sex really wasn't necessary except to draw attention to this post, obviously...remember there are children here and as adults we should at least try to preserve their innocence and yes I know that might be unrealistic but when little johnny is sitting at the dinner table and he is asked how his day has been, what do you think his reply would be? Oh...mom...I learned that sucking someone's penis is a personal choice and swallowing is good for your complexion...bad vibes...very bad vibes

Let's also face that there is probably a very small percentage of the population that actually use the word 'felatio' in open sexual discussion.

If we can't talk about oral sex in the sexual forum, then what is the point of it? (the forum, that is... not oral sex, lol).