totally confused

i am really messed up inside .. my uncle has been forcing himself on me i tell him to stop but he wont and i feel uncomfortable but i feel like i deserve it!

(((( HUGS )))) -
No Sweetie...... you do NOT desrve it and I would advice you to tell a trusted adult what is going on... as what your uncle is doing is both wrong and illegal.

Rhapsody is right. No one deserves to be forced into something they are not comfortable with. Please report this to someone you can trust. This needs to stop now. Please keep yourself safe.

You must try to take control of this ginnie. Being a victim sometimes is a choice and you CAN choose otherwise.

Right now he has the power...

Take it back and follow the wonderfull advice given by your freinds here and report this to a person you trust....

The longer you wait,,the less power you will feel you have.

You can do this...

With care,

Lenny

Please take the advice above ,ginniesky,and seek the trust of someone else,
..as soon as possible,what you say thats been happening is very wrong , is illegal, and must be stopped now.
You would be doing the right thing,,just to tell another person what you have said here, and choose someone perhaps that is not "family" to tell first, there will be somebody who will help you., but do not keep this to yourself any longer, please.

take the advice of the others ,

take care,

alevin

seak some advice from your local community police officer it happened to me many years ago and it screwed me up but now i choose not to be a victim so my heart does go out to you but sort something out ginnie please for your sanity

Please talk to someone, your parents, a police officer, a teacher, someone.

i told my therapist yesterday she said that what happened was not my fault....and she said she might have to report it. i am very! scared but also a little relieved. strange huh?

It should be reported and don't be scared. You have done nothing wrong. You don't deserve and didn't ask for it. Remember that okay?

There is a lot of excellent advice here, let me add to it. If you do not keep a journal, start doing so. As much as the memories hurt, I would recommend doccumenting in detail each of these encounters and especially dates and times. IF you have to go to court with this it will help with the accuracy of your testamony and establish that there has been a consistant pattern of unwanted contact.

It is likely if your uncle is doing things like this to you that he is also making unwarranted advances on others as well. He has a major sickness, YOU ARE NOT THE PROBLEM.

Best of luck to you in this.

TJ