Am I Bisexual?

HI, I never felt this way before but I just had sex with a woman for the first time. I loved it. It is so different than with a guy. I like sex with a guy as well, but I had a better experience with a woman.. Has anyone else felt this way? ... I felt I could relate more to the woman than to the guy, and I never felt that way before. Maybe it's the just the person, and not the gender.

Whales

Making love involves not only physical attraction but also feelings, emotions, the way we relate to the person we are having sex with. We do not fall in love/we're not attracted because of the gender... we love the person. We look at the entire person and we love the entire picture, not the detail.

And if you're bisexual, you'll figure it out just living.

Could be!
I am.

For me, it's definitely more about the person and less about the "plumbing". Sometimes it's a man, sometimes it's a woman. It's about whoever I fall in love with, and I don't fall in love with a set of genitals. I love PEOPLE, and PEOPLE turn me on.

Ditto to the above poster.

Though it is completely possible to just be attracted sexually to the same sex and opposite sex without actually attaching a label to it. What i mean is, for me its more about falling in love - and personally, i could fall in love with a woman OR a man. Or both. Who knows? I'm pretty open and liberal sexually so that may taint my veiws some.

Personally, i think if you enjoyed your experience, good for you! As long as you are having sex for the right reasons and not the wrong reasons(looking to be loved, low self esteem) then whoever or whatever kind of sex you have is entirely up to you and the person or persons you have it with. And of course, stay safe.

I wouldn't focus so much on the label - just leave yourself open. Just think of yourself as a sexual being, not a BIsexual or HETEROsexual or HOMOsexual.. just sexual, like all of us are!

I've been learning a little bit about how excitement can affect a sexual experience....for real. If it's your first time with a woman and you seriously enjoyed every bit of it then maybe you are bi, but consider the elements like how the excitement and arousal took place. Either way there ain't nothing wrong with figuring yourself out.

I agree with Italianguy it is the person more than the gender. It sounds like you emotionally connect more with women, is that how you feel? If so, go with it!

I think i am too. i had my first experience a few months ago and loved it too. I am in a complicated situation right now, so it makes this whole thing hard for me.