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Old Aug 11, 2009, 01:28 AM
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Hey all...

I have finally found a place where I can find answers to my questions...

To begin with I am a very dreamy person. I dream all day and all night, no matter what I do or say... In a way you could easily compare me to "Becky Bloomwood" the famous character created by Sophie Kinsella. Just like her I wade deep into the dreamy forests. I am posting this dream here so that I can interpret it more deeply and I really need to do that...

This dream appeared first when I was a 6th grader... I remember that day to be so gloomy and dull for me, having a dispute with my best friends and then back home with my parents and my siblings... The only person with whom I was in talking terms was with my grandpa.. Well, that night I slept without any supper, and this is how the dream goes-

I am at school and having a nice time with my friends... We are discussing stuffs that I never thought about and the atmosphere was so peaceful and happy.. At that moment I'm in my classroom; then suddenly I'm in my school library, or so I thought... Anyway I was surrounded by shelves and shelves of books... and I had a few books in my hand and I'm leafing through some others... and then I am sitting at the Library counter talking to someone and in my mind I know she is my assistant or whatever..

Then I look up and see some guy come up to me...he is wearing a white shirt, that is just shining radiantly and I look upto his eyes, and OH! MY GOD!! I say!! He was the most handsome guy I met!! ( I was only 12 den!! and I never had one boyfriend, all my friends were girls) and he had the most beautiful eyes and that smile!! It was soooooooo beautiful that I forgot all my pain and grief at that moment... all I did was stare at him... and though it was a dream I felt it... in my heart... and i felt him before my eyes... and to this day that dream remains intact...

By and by I saw him everytime... we met at different places, in different countries, at different occassions and each time I saw him, my heart would bounce... I was in love with him... I knew it.. I could feel the warmth of that love I had towards him, it was like something very fulfilling and I dont know how to describe it very clearly but seeing him always brought peace and calm to my thundering behaviour...

For the past 6 months he has ceased to appear in my dreams that I've started missing him badly and I get that sense of fear and lonliness that I used to have when I was a kid.

Can anyone explain to me what this is supposed to mean?? Why do I see him and why is it that I feel a strong love towards him, that I dont feel even slightly to anyone else??
And something else too- Most of my dreams come true... and I believe that one day this dream would come true too... And I'm hoping against hope that I will meet him and it would be him that I marry. I told this to my parents and my grandpa, though they are eager to get me married soon, they are ready to wait for that guy but they still laugh at my dreams... So do you think this dream has any possibility to come true?? Please help me out... coz for the past 6 to 7 months my mind is a wrecking havoc... and I simply dont know what to do...

Thanks to all in advance..

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Old Aug 11, 2009, 02:19 AM
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Sorry, I don't have any knowlege for you (I'm not good at these things) but I've also usd to have a recurring boy character show up in my deams, who just has various ages and styles but you can tell he's the same guy. We loved eachother in a ways but it wasn't like love love like you were posting about. More like a deep and mutual affection. I don't even remember the last time he was in my dreams (which is kinda sad)
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Old Aug 11, 2009, 02:28 AM
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Thanks Kaika... even if there is no solution from your side it is always good to know that there are other people out there just like you... and the comfort it gives is not just little...

P.S. I love your blog..
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Old Aug 11, 2009, 02:33 AM
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Old Aug 12, 2009, 11:44 AM
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I think our mind is the creator of everything....having dream is the best thing ever...because you start with the dream then it will happen....
I'm a dreamer too, day dreaming, night dreaming, but as I'm getting older, my dreams are not with me anymore....every night, I get to bed, I want to dream, but that's not happening....
Most of my dreams come through...and I do believe in my dreams....and in my life whenever I dreamed about something then that thing has happened....I found out, I just have to be very clear about my dream....
I do believe that you will find that guy, just wait and no rush....

probably, for now he went to vacation...hehehe....just kidding

take care
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Old Aug 13, 2009, 01:45 AM
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I think our mind is the creator of everything....having dream is the best thing ever...because you start with the dream then it will happen....
I'm a dreamer too, day dreaming, night dreaming, but as I'm getting older, my dreams are not with me anymore....every night, I get to bed, I want to dream, but that's not happening....
Most of my dreams come through...and I do believe in my dreams....and in my life whenever I dreamed about something then that thing has happened....I found out, I just have to be very clear about my dream....
I do believe that you will find that guy, just wait and no rush....

probably, for now he went to vacation...hehehe....just kidding

take care
Marjan

Hehhe.. Thanks.... its so comforting...
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Old Sep 14, 2009, 04:04 AM
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Sounds like you are dreaming about the perfect man. Certainly, if you take opportunities, you will meet the perfect man for you, and you will see in him this man of your dreams, whether or not he is dressed all in white! Possibly, the more you dwell on him in your day dreams, the less will be the need for him to appear in your nightly dreams. I have found this to be the case with the man who repeatedly appeared in my night dreams, i.e. my ex-husband.
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