what might this mean?

for the past week or so all of my dreams have been similar. they all involve me and my friend. in each dream one of us is packing all of our stuff to leave college (usually me) and never see eachother again. sometimes im in my room alone packing and all i can think of is going up to her room to see her one last time. i wake up crying sometimes because of this. do you think that these dreams are telling i should leave here and leave her behind or anything else? im so confused. i hate dreams.

The dream is telling you that it is time to move on with your personal development. More than likely, the friend (in reality) is compensating for some type of personality / psyche destructuration you possess. The external compensation lent to you here needs to be eventually resolved within yourself, and it may be time to do this. Since your friend it "up" stairs, then it is possible you are not happy where you are and making rash decisions that compromising your "path" in life?