crazy nightmares

so i have these crazy dreams weird paranormal stuff sometimes it involves names of people i know but the face doesnt match the name. i wake up multiple times before i cant take it anymore i look at my clock and it reads 3:27 am. i dont get it. ive even had this dream once where this guy was going around killing people and i hid til he came out and killed him to protect everyone one else and my family. these have been happening more and more. to the point i dont wanna sleep anymore. they are always in color with sounds. sometimes ill be up for a couple hours after having these vivid dreams and when i finally decide to go back to bed i pick up right where i left off.

How do you act towards others in real life? Maybe you are now in the precess of quitting some sort of bad behaviour/attitude towards other people.

actually i am a really nice guy. i go way out of my way for others almost daily. i have had a horrible marriage i divorced her over a year ago and she still gives me a hard time but yet she asks for help all the time and is decent once in a blue moon then back to the harrassment but for some reason i still help her even though shes is already pregnant with another guy shes been with for 8 months. we have two beautiful children that i see as often as i can. i work so i cant really see them while im working. i really do not like where my life has gone since ive met her. i used to have everything now i have very little but i make the best of it and enjoy my time with my kids and i have plenty of hobbies to keep me busy.

I believe that dreams are telling us about something unconscious. A lot of times there is an unconscious attitude that conflicts with the conscious attitude. To your conscious mind, there are many things you do that are nice to other people. And that is true. But there may be other ways in which you act aggressively toward people, and this may occur if you are denying your own needs too much when you try to be nice. Consider paying attention to times that you deny your own needs when you are choosing how to act toward other people.

Repressed Anger around your situation is mirrored in this dream. See a Therapist to help you strieghten this situation out.

Start a dream journal. When you have a whole lot of dreams like this, often there is an issue that your subconscious mind can't wrap itself around. So each night it tries from a different perspective. There's conflict. And since you describe the dreams as weird, paranormal, and crazy, I think the confusion of this issue is reflected in the dreams.

If you make a point to start journalling these, after say three or four entries you might start see a theme. Or you might be able to bring them here and let the rest of us help you discover it