[ddshow]

I've been having terrible dreams of my boyfriend confessing toe that he has cheated on me. In my dreams I keep asking him and then finally he responds usually laughing at me saying I'm so stupid for not realizing it. In these dreams I cry so hard that I wake with instant heartache as if it really happened. That he laughed at me in my pain. When I tell him these dreams he reassures me they aren't real and will never come true but they keep coming back, some worse than others. It hurts even though I know they aren't real but I've had dreams come alive while I'm awake (as in something very similar to my dreams happens soon after I have them). This is what scares me the most. I know it sounds silly but I don't know why I believe my dreams especially these horrifically emotional dreams about my boyfriend finally confessing he has been cheating will come true. Is there anything to them or is it just my crumbled self esteem that is causing me to believe no one would want to be with only me and laugh at me as if I were stupid to think I could be loved?

[likewater]

Dreams aren't always foretelling of the future. Sometimes they are our mind's way of processing fears/anxieties / and emotions. I always dream my b-friend does something super heinous and I'll stay mad at him all morning even though it was just a dream because it feels so real. I have had some dreams come true like a deja vu sort of thing. Other dreams are just dreams. Is there anything else that makes you believe your b-friend is going to cheat on you? Is there something your subconscious is picking up
on or are you just feeling insecure or unloved? May angels surround you.

[ddshow]

Thanks for your reply! I think it has more to do with my insecurities. I think I was getting too caught up in the "what if" and forgetting what is right in front of me, not in the dreams. My boyfriend has been interested in buying a house together and I guess that has shot my anxiety through the roof thinking, wow this is a huge step. I feel that once we are in a house together and if we break up it will be a huge ordeal and I just scared of him being done with me and realizing he doesn't want a life with me... I suppose self esteem issues can be to blame ...