[Constantinos]

Hello guys,

My girlfriend has told me that for two days now she is seeing dreams that her teeth breaking, there are many explanations including maybe that someone close to her will die...

In the past days our relationship isn't going well, mostly due to the fact that i got bored of the egoistic relationship that we have where i am not allowed to say/do/ask for anything. And because i got bored of this relationship we have argued quite a bit both days, the problem with my girlfriend is that she doesn't she is so egoistic she doesn't understand the problem... [this goes as far as she doesn't understand what the problem is for her to talk with her ex-boyfriend and receive and maybe even send kisses, hearts and other types of flirting].

Anyway i won't go into a lot of details: would this dream be due to the instability in our relationship? maybe she feels that our relationship is coming to the end? which indeed could be true unless she changes things such as how secretive she is [8 months in this relationship and I have no idea what she is ever doing, there are hours where she doesn't respond to any messages, there are times she is not home... and many more]

And last but not least, how can i help her? it is extremely difficult for me to help her but i am who i am and i want to help her so she is OK and it doesn't matter how i feel.

[Constantinos]

I should also mention that i am trying as hard as i can to fix the relationship, I've tried talking to her multiple times but i always get a wall in front of me.

I should also mention that I am not very strong these last weeks as I've experienced a epileptic seizure with a mild to serious heart attack episode last week where i just found myself on the floor with the ambulance in my house and my door broken and they said i was unresponsive for at least 40 minutes as i failed to communicate with anyone and the last message i sent to a person was that i was going to bring water as i was feeling unwell, after that message there was no further communication from myself and the person called the ambulance and the police and also the person came and they found me completely unconscious and they had difficulties in making me respond taking over 15 minutes for myself to respond, from what the doctor said when i fell i hit my head and i was probably in a coma. Anyway i can't explain at the moment what exactly happened because i am not feeling well.

[lors]

I used to have the teeth falling/rotting/breaking dream A LOT. I don't know if it's timing or what but usually soon after I'd get into a huge fight with a loved one and close people did pass away (but again this is likely coincidental).

I'm inclined to believe the dream as a kind of warning that I'm about to have a big fight with a loved one.

Needless to say, I HATE those dreams.

But back to more important things, maybe you should get yourself to a hospital? Or at least ask a close friend to keep you company?

Hope you get well soon!

[Constantinos]

Originally Posted by lors

I used to have the teeth falling/rotting/breaking dream A LOT. I don't know if it's timing or what but usually soon after I'd get into a huge fight with a loved one and close people did pass away (but again this is likely coincidental).

I'm inclined to believe the dream as a kind of warning that I'm about to have a big fight with a loved one.

Needless to say, I HATE those dreams.

But back to more important things, maybe you should get yourself to a hospital? Or at least ask a close friend to keep you company?

Hope you get well soon!

To be honest i just want my girlfriend to be fine, as for me it doesn't matter as long as my girlfriend is fine i'll try my best. Unfortunately my girlfriend doesn't like me having any close friends, i have my psychologist but i'm not allowed to talk to her because my girlfriend gets angry... neither am i allowed to go to hospital because my girlfriend gets angry... so yeah i do talk to my psychologist in secret but she has no idea what to suggest anymore because its such a complicated relationship and such a difficult relationship that i got myself into

Basically if i stay or end the relationship it will be the same thing, just a huge amount of pain with no clear ending... then its going to me meeting up another girl at some stage and just give her my love then get abused again... as always really - I've always been abused from a small child but i try to fight through my past but i always manage to get myself in abusive relationships i mean in my last relationship i was nearly shot dead by the father of that girl...

Anyway my life is just blank at the moment, i don't get satisfied with anything, i am bored of everything, feeling just nothing, wanting just nothing, not liking anything. I'm usually a person that i like listening to songs and i always find a song that i can feel the words, its been weeks now i don't like any song neither love songs neither hate songs neither happy songs neither sad songs, i have no feelings anymore.

[lors]

I'm not a therapist but if you were my friend, I might have suggested that you try and find someone who will appreciate you better rather than stay with someone who wants to dominate you.

With regards to music, what I do when I can't find a particular tune to identify with, I try to write a song with my guitar. I've found the process to be healing and rewarding.

Have you tried picking up an instrument?

[Constantinos]

Originally Posted by lors

I'm not a therapist but if you were my friend, I might have suggested that you try and find someone who will appreciate you better rather than stay with someone who wants to dominate you.

With regards to music, what I do when I can't find a particular tune to identify with, I try to write a song with my guitar. I've found the process to be healing and rewarding.

Have you tried picking up an instrument?

Indeed i also want to find someone better, its just so difficult to leave this relationship, anyway there isn't anything good in this relationship its full of lies, flirting with other guys which i am aware of one person and i have all of his details.

I've been thinking that in one of relationships i ended that relationship some days after i found that my ex-girlfriend was flirting with a guy... and that girl really really really loved me and she still hasn't gotten over that... she didn't mean to flirt with the other guy she just did due to some disorder she had but i kept my strict limits and told her that we couldn't be together.

I don't get why i am not doing the same in this relationship, this time its worse even as my current girlfriend doesn't even think that flirting with another guy is wrong, at least the other one apologized and tried to stop doing it and also asked for psychological assistance, my current one just said that i am jealous that she is flirting with other guys.

Right now the only song i can identify with is this one: Demi Lovato - Warrior -

I'm going to take some rest and hope for the best to be honest

[AllonsY]

Dreams with teeth falling out/issues with them etc, from my understanding of what I've read, typically mean that the individual feels they are unable to communicate something for some reason.

[lors]

Originally Posted by AllonsY

Dreams with teeth falling out/issues with them etc, from my understanding of what I've read, typically mean that the individual feels they are unable to communicate something for some reason.

Interesting. This just may be it.

[lors]

Originally Posted by Constantinos

Indeed i also want to find someone better, its just so difficult to leave this relationship, anyway there isn't anything good in this relationship its full of lies, flirting with other guys which i am aware of one person and i have all of his details.

I've been thinking that in one of relationships i ended that relationship some days after i found that my ex-girlfriend was flirting with a guy... and that girl really really really loved me and she still hasn't gotten over that... she didn't mean to flirt with the other guy she just did due to some disorder she had but i kept my strict limits and told her that we couldn't be together.

I don't get why i am not doing the same in this relationship, this time its worse even as my current girlfriend doesn't even think that flirting with another guy is wrong, at least the other one apologized and tried to stop doing it and also asked for psychological assistance, my current one just said that i am jealous that she is flirting with other guys.

Right now the only song i can identify with is this one: Demi Lovato - Warrior -

I'm going to take some rest and hope for the best to be honest

How long have you been together with your current girlfriend?

[gnat]

I used to have that same dream quite frequently. It started before I even had all of my adult teeth as I would dream I had wiggled free what I thought was a baby tooth, but it was really an adult tooth. As I got older they would sometimes crumble, other times a whole tooth would be hanging on by a thread.

I used to spend a lot of time trying to figure out what these dreams meant. Then I asked myself how I feel during these dreams and determined I feel a loss of control. I feel like no matter what I do, my teeth will crumble, it's humiliating.

Perhaps my teeth falling out dreams signify the loss of control in my real life, or perhaps if means nothing at all.

[growlycat]

Every once in a while I also dream about crumbling or breaking teeth.

found this, not sure how true it is:

Dreams of Losing Your Teeth

Although you may have some concerns about your dental hygiene, dreams of your teeth falling out, crumbling, cracking, turning black or becoming decayed are usually about a communication problem you experienced the day before. Symbolically, teeth represent your personal power as it relates to what comes out of your mouth--your speech. The dream may comment that you failed to assert your opinion, were unable to clearly and concisely say what you wanted to say or silenced yourself when it was important to speak up. A blackened tooth can represent something you said that made you feel ugly. A broken front tooth can suggest a breakdown in communication in which you felt powerless to effect a change with your opinion. Loosing a slew of teeth may remark you are far too timid and as a result you are ineffective. These dreams may amplify feelings of inferiority and suggest it's time to remove the blocks and adjust your communication style.