[Leselase]

Most of the time when I dream it's of my fiance, and they are rarely happy dreams. Never of our wedding, future family. Instead of us breaking up or him cheating.

The dream I just woke up from. We were both at uni, even though I have no plans at all to go. He started ignoring me, like I would walk near him and he would go up busy elevators to get away from me. Eventually he shouted that it was over and I could feel the pain of the breakup in my chest and felt my heart break, even though it was a dream. He then started hanging around with a girl I fell out with as a child (??) I asked if he'd been dating her now and he said she'd given him head and I felt like screaming and crying. I've woke up feeling very unsettled..

I have cyclothymia by the way. Can someone please help me, why am I plagued with dreams like this?

[Thunder Bow]

Anxiety, maybe you feel he is out of your reach. Emotionally.

[yugh]

Hi,
First off, from my own dreaming experiences, I've learnt to not literally interpret dreams. So...don't be so worried about your fiance and yourself. HOWEVER, you are likely using your relationship as a symbol to send yourself messages about yourself.

Therefore, if you'd kindly answer the questions below, to the best of your dream recall ability, I'll happily give you an interpretation of your dream as if it was mine.

Scenes:
How many scenes were there in the dream?

FOR EACH SCENE I want you to tell me the following:

Location:
I want you to look in your mind, as the observer, in the following directions and tell me what you see:
1. To your left.
2. To your right.
3. In front of you.
4. Behind you.
5. Above you.
6. Below you.

It’s all right if you can’t recall much. Simply tell me what you see and make sure I know what direction it is from you the dreamer. In my interpretation, you’ll see how this is a symbol itself.

When you are describing what you see, tell me in as much detail as you can recall about it. So things I am very interested in is what are walls, doors, windows, stairs, tables, etc. made of, age/style, colour, etc. The same goes for anything outside. You’ll see in my interpretations how all of this tells us lots about ourselves.

Lighting:
1. Tell me what the lighting was like, i.e. bright, dull, black, cloudy etc.
2. Then tell me where the light was coming from.
3. Can you tell the time of day or season?
Lighting is important in a dream because it’s a symbol of vibrational state. I’ll explain this during my interpretation for you.

Objects:
If there are any objects in a dream scene, then tell me about them as follows:
1. Shape, size, colour and what they were made of.
2. Where the object is in the dream relative to you, i.e. left, right, etc.

I’ve found objects in dreams are usually symbols of things we first need to concentrate on spiritually. I’ll explain this in the interpretation if you had any objects in any of the scenes.

People:
For each person in a dream scene I want you to do the following:
1. Describe them to me in as much detail as you can recall. This includes age, gender, clothes, colour of the clothes, what the clothes were made of.
2. Tell me where they were in the dream scene relative to you, i.e. left, right, below, etc.
3. Tell me if they were lying down, sitting, standing, walking, etc.
4. Tell me what they did with you. Don’t skip the details. Simply tell me exactly what happened.
5. If there are any conversations or thoughts between you and the person or others, then tell me EXACTLY WHAT WAS SAID. This is important.
6. If there were others you couldn’t see but felt, then let me know where you felt they were in a scene relative to you the dreamer, i.e. left, right, etc.

Animals. Etc.:
If there were any animals, insects, birds, reptiles, fish or whatever in any of the scenes, then tell me. Describe them in as great as detail as you can recall. Also let me know where they were in the dream scene relative to you, i.e. left, right, etc. Then let me know of any thoughts that passed between you and them.

Thoughts/Feelings:
This is a very important part of every dream scene. Take your time, go back and tell me the following for each scene:
1. What was your first thought/feeling as the dream scene began.
2. Tell me of any thoughts/feeling changes as the dream scene progressed and let me know where in the scene this occurred.
3. Tell me your last thought/feeling as the dream ended.

Okay, I realize this is a lot of work BUT you might be surprised by my interpretation.

Wth kind regards,
Guy

QUOTE=Leselase;5300115]Most of the time when I dream it's of my fiance, and they are rarely happy dreams. Never of our wedding, future family. Instead of us breaking up or him cheating.

The dream I just woke up from. We were both at uni, even though I have no plans at all to go. He started ignoring me, like I would walk near him and he would go up busy elevators to get away from me. Eventually he shouted that it was over and I could feel the pain of the breakup in my chest and felt my heart break, even though it was a dream. He then started hanging around with a girl I fell out with as a child (??) I asked if he'd been dating her now and he said she'd given him head and I felt like screaming and crying. I've woke up feeling very unsettled..

I have cyclothymia by the way. Can someone please help me, why am I plagued with dreams like this?[/QUOTE]