He had a dream he said goodbye

He dreamt he said goodbye to me because of my mom. He says he loves me very much and doesn't want to break up but we really have to work on this. My mom doesn't believe in privacy; he cares greatly about privacy. My mom's theory is God sees all, knows all, nothing is private anyway. She fails to give him (us) privacy. She will walk on me in the bathroom for example. She walked on us in the bedroom we weren't having sex but were naked. He got very angry, because she saw him naked. She claimed it was a honest mistake she was incorrect with what day of the week it was and was trying to get me up for work that she thought I was late for. However he says she should at least knock when a door is closed.

I love him and don't want to end things but I don't see a solution to this aside from not living with my mom which is something I'm not able to alter at this time. I don't have the money to move because I'm catching up on medical bills and waiting on section 8 housing.

It's a tough situation when one lives in a parent's home. Does your boyfriend work? Could he perhaps find you two a place to live while you wait for section 8 housing? If he does not work or contribute at all financially, then you two will have to live by your mother's rules while you are in her home.

I totally get where he is coming from, it must be frustrating to not have that privacy. But at least you two have a roof over your head, and food to eat. Perhaps in the future you two can make sure you're not naked while hanging out in the room, in case she comes in unannounced in the future. Frankly, while in her house, it is her rules that you must obey.

Well he has a place of his own, he was visiting over the weekend. She thought Sunday was Monday and we were running late for work. She knows my job is important to me to catch up on bills and have a sense if independence. I believe it was a mistake on her part. But they are both in a huff about it, him more than her. He doesn't plan to come up anymore and told me to bring all his stuff. I told him if he plans to break up with me that he should just drive up and get his stuff. He says he doesn't plan on breaking up with me. I can't get him to understand her stance. I have told him to contribute some money for food or to bring some groceries that makes her happy, though we eat out most of the time he's here. But that was before the big fight. Mom is more forgiving than him it seems and I've had to work on her to get her to forgive him for his angry outburst towards her. I hate being stuck in the middle.