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Old May 02, 2006, 04:22 PM
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I havent smoked in 9 days...I want a cigarette...

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Old May 02, 2006, 04:40 PM
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Good for you...
if you can hang in there...
I'm a smoker and failed many times to quit...
hope you make it, wishing you the best,
Patricia xx
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Old May 02, 2006, 04:55 PM
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Sounds lame .. but well done!!! I have given up three times. The last time seeming to be ( 6 months) successful. Every single time was as hurtful and as hard and as devastating as before.

9 days is awesome - really!!!!

As an ex-smoker who really really wants to smoke I can only say hang in there - it really does get easier with each passing day. Somehow it does!!
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Old May 02, 2006, 05:14 PM
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Thanks for the support. The craving for a smoke has passed for now...I'm hanging in there.
6 months is a very long time...that inspires me.
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Old May 03, 2006, 01:11 AM
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that is wonderful you have not smoked. you can get angry at the want if you like. I did all the time for first two to three weeks. I't been 2.5 years of being Smober. Dont give up. I tried many many times. that is what it took for me. to get here. Hang in there it is possible.
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Old May 03, 2006, 01:50 PM
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I LOVE IT!!!!

As for it getting easier and experiencing the emotions, yes - feel as angry as you want. I had to remind myself that I was mourning a friend. The one friend that was with me, without judgement, whether I was happy, sad, angry, depressed, or any other kind of mood - this friend was with me - no matter what. And then, without warning I decided to let the friend go. When I allowed myself to grieve for this friend, it started to get a little easier.

I cried helplessy for many many days but it did get better.

First time I gave up was for 5 years. Then in a fit of depression, I started again. Then I gave up (more out of a sense of duty than wanting to) just before my wedding - that lasted just short of a year. I do not recall starting again as it happened whilst I was undergoing ECT. Anyway, 8 months later by MY choice I gave up for the third time. And that is the 6 months (now 7) that I mentioned.

I think that I am trying to say that you have done very well. It is very hard - just like any addiction.

You have strength!!!!

Keep posting - it is a good distraction.
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Old May 03, 2006, 07:42 PM
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I'm still hanging in there...
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That's great king!!!!!!!
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Old May 03, 2006, 10:22 PM
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umm..im quitting after these last 7 cigs i got left
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Old May 04, 2006, 07:57 AM
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maybe, i think, i hope
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Old May 04, 2006, 08:43 AM
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I'm wishing the best of luck to both king and lily...
any addiction is so hard to quit, offering complete support!
sending good vibes.... quit smoking quit smoking
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Old May 04, 2006, 09:15 PM
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i dont think i wanna quit
i've only had one today
and im dyin..quit smoking
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Old May 05, 2006, 08:35 AM
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In my case I wasn't successful because I wasn't really ready... my x was trying to force me.
I believe it works only if you're really ready.... if you're not its ok.... you will be at some point,
wishing you the best,
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Hi King, :P
Keep up the good work!
You too, Lily!
I quit smoking and the nicotine cravings were the hardest thing in the world for me for the first 3 days.
Stay strong!!! quit smoking
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Old May 05, 2006, 07:05 PM
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I cheated and smoked a cig. I'm not going to stop trying..I hope ur doing better stargazer. It's real tough.
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Old May 05, 2006, 07:28 PM
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King,
it's really not easy....I know, so don't feel bad.... you're probably just not quite ready....
sending you positive vibes....
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Old May 06, 2006, 03:40 AM
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1 is better than 12. thats not good, is it, when i only just started up again a few weeks ago..oh jeez..
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Old May 06, 2006, 11:47 AM
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That's awesome, good for you!!.....I wish I could do it, I've been struggling with quitting for the past year...how did you do it, cold turkey, patch, or gum?

I really really want to quit as well. I'm tired of being a slave to the tobacco industry.

Good Luck for the future days and cravings, if you've come this far you can keep going!
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Old May 06, 2006, 09:43 PM
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is it the same if i quit quitting? i just got 2 packs today
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Old May 09, 2006, 08:23 AM
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stupid question on the topic of smoking..
is it possible to smoke too much? i was throwing up all day yesterday after i had a smoke, feeling very light headed and dizzy. would the cigs. have that affect on me if its too much for my body to stand?
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Old May 10, 2006, 08:46 PM
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I know dizzy happens after not smoking for a while.
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