I am nothing but a fat pig who has nothing going for her my life is a dead end iam so ugly i do not know how anybody can look at me iam so ugly and so horrily unlovable by anyone i will be alone for the rest of my life and i deserve to be

[paddym22]

(((((((37))))))))

I have missed you, you have always been a great friend to me, I am sorry you are suffering, you are really worthwhile.

[Naturefreak]

(((loser37)))

We keep telling ourselves that and we believe it .
NOT TRUE .....YOU ARE WORTHWHILE
YOU ARE NOT ALONE
YOU DON'T DESERVE IT

[VickiesPath]

{{{{{{{{{{{Dear Loser37.....}}}}}}}}}}

I used to think exactly the same way you do. I used to hang my head and look at the ground as I walked around because I actually thought it hurt people to look at me (true story). Once I actually hit my head on a switch box on a light pole (no kidding) cuz I was looking at the ground when I stepped up on the curb. I spent probably 30 years of my life thinking exactly the same things as you do, that I was fat and ugly, with the same self-depreciation......and then one day, guess what happened? An amazing, brilliant, charming Englishman whom I met on the internet saw my picture and fell in love with me at first sight (so he says). He could hardly wait to meet me. Five months later we met and then a year and a half later, we married. We'll be married ten years at the end of August. So you know what I decided? I didn't know ***** !!! The truth is we can tell ourselves lies or have them told to us so many times that we eventually believe them. Sweetheart, you are not fat and ugly. You are beautiful. God made you and He don't make junk. Also, you are really down right now so the future looks hopeless. But, oh my dear, as the song goes, what a difference a day makes. Just know you are loved and supported here.

[degas]

Originally Posted by loser37

I am nothing but a fat pig who has nothing going for her my life is a dead end iam so ugly i do not know how anybody can look at me iam so ugly and so horrily unlovable by anyone i will be alone for the rest of my life and i deserve to be

I suspect that there is another voice inside you that you hear sometimes but ignore. My self esteem might be worse that yours, at least I bet it's gone on for a lot longer. I feel so ugly that not only do I hate to get my picture taken, it is actually painful for me to know that I am being seen at all.

I grew up big-nosed, skinny, knock-kneed, buck-toothed, too tall,feet too big,acne-scarred, yellow-toothed, flat-chested, orthopedic-shoed, hillbilly-haired and unloved. But every once in a while I hear what sounds like a sincere compliment from someone unknown to me. Does it give me much hope? No, but it does allow me to get out of the house sometimes. I suspect that my imagination makes it so much worse that it really is. But everytime I see a picture of myself I still cry at my image. But you see, it doesn't seem to bother anybody else. And I see people every day uglier that I am and wonder how they can make it through their day at all.

I hate people with healthy egos because I wish I was one of them. I wish I could for once accept a sincere compliment, but I think they are just trying to be nice to an ugly girl. Are we wrong? How would we know? We must suffer from reverse-vanily. I suspect it doesn't matter at all what we look like.

[*freak*]

I feel exactly the same way... I don't have any advice/solution... All I can offer you is my support
And no, you do NOT deserve to be alone for the rest of your life. No one does and you a re no exception