[Nerak]

Not sure why or maybe I just do not want to figure it out. Feeling like a failure and that I am not doing my best. Looked in the mirror and tried to say some positives it just didn't seem to work.

Thanks for listening

[Fuzzybear]

Wow, I feel as if I could have written your post today, I am not feeling good about the bear either so I probably won't be much help

I have never thought of you as anything approaching a failure..... quite the opposite.... and you know this bear is always right!!!

You are one of my favourite people here! You are intelligent, honest, empathetic, funny .... and a lot more!

((((((((((((((((((Karen))))))))))))))))))

[SeptemberMorn]

It's not an immediate "cure," Hun. You need to keep doing it over and over. Possitives don't penetrate the brain as easily as negatives.

Watch your self-talk, too, when you're away from the mirror. Just keep telling yourself nice things about yourself... just like you would a little child that's feeling low. Practice Kindness on yourself.

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Karen}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

[kimmydawn]

(((((((((((((((((((((( karen )))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

has something happened that might've brought this about? did someone critisize or something, or did you do something and are critisizing self?

whatever the reason, i understand, and hope you can feel better about things really soon i think you're an awesome person look in the mirror and say, "kd thinks im an awesome person!"

Love,

[h0kie]

Could you print off your positives and put them somewhere where you will see them frequently. Heck! Tape them to your mirror? Print several copies and plaster your house with them.

We still think

[Nerak]

Thank you everyone, having you here sure helps.