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Apr 23, 2010, 12:14 AM
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So it is out there. I told my mom that I was raped. I still can't believe I can say that word. And I told her in front of 2 cops!
It all started when my T had me call the hotline because I was SU and the hotline called the cops. My mom was upset that I didn't talk to her, which is true. She told me that I needed to let her know what was going on and that I talk more to my friends than I do her. That they know more about what is going on in my life. She said that she has been through tough times too and that she understands what I am going through. That is when I told her. I straight up asked her if she had "ever been raped over and over and over again by her husband." I told her that she would never understand that, that is why I can't talk to her. I have 2 friends that know about this, and they have both been through it. It is a good thing the cops were here, because I would have bolted for the door and left. Now that she knows, it seems a weight has been lifted off of me. I am REALLY ready to talk about it with my T. I said the word and I survived. I have said it since then and survived. It is just a word. A tragic thing that happened to me. Something that I didn't deserve, that I didn't ask for, that I didn't allow. I was raped by a person who loved me. I AM A SURVIVOR!
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 AShadow721, Bill3, by.grace, darkpurplesecrets, lynn P., WePow
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Apr 23, 2010, 01:23 AM
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#3
Apr 23, 2010, 02:22 AM
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You go girlfriend! You are strong! I hope the justice system does not let this one fall through the cracks.
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Apr 23, 2010, 02:37 AM
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((((buttrfli))))
Yes, you are a survivor and I am so proud of you. Thank you for sharing. Know we are here for you. We care. Sending you gentle hugs and loving thoughts. Always.  dps 
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Apr 23, 2010, 03:27 AM
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Good Job!!!!
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Apr 23, 2010, 09:20 AM
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(((((((buttrfi))))))) Great job!!!!! I'm so happy for you. You are awesome and soooo brave!!!!!!! When do you get to talk to your T again?
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#7
Apr 23, 2010, 11:29 AM
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Very good work!!!!
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#8
Apr 24, 2010, 07:22 PM
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VERY VERY good work!! YES! "I AM A SURVIVOR! " You said it!
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Apr 24, 2010, 08:34 PM
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You're very brave for telling and standing up to this.
You are a survivor and this will empower you. Hoping for strength and clarity
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Apr 24, 2010, 09:32 PM
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Excellent!
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#11
Apr 25, 2010, 03:40 PM
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Nucking: unfortunately he has already gotten away with it. I didn't know there was such thing as wife rape until after I had left him. There is no evidence, or any way to prosecute him, no matter how much I want him to pay for it. He will pay come judgement day.
Clay: I got to see one of my Ts on Friday before I went out of town. I will see the others this week. They have all been very supportive during the last few weeks during my hospitalization. I am ready to get back on schedule with them and get back to working on my issues.
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