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Old Nov 12, 2010, 12:51 PM
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feeling more and more distant from people. everyone is already complete without me. im not needed. i dont have anything to offer that people want or need. nor do they care. they have what they need. but i dont. but that doesnt matter. theres no point. i hate just watching all the time. i hate having to keep back all the time. i hate the silence. i hate the isolation. i hate the invisibility. i hate having nothing good enough to offer. i hate that i dont matter. i dont exist in the real world where it counts. there must be something wrong with me. wish id learn to just be quiet and happy watching from a distance. where everyone wants me to be. hope this doesnt sound rude. its not meant to be. just what i think and cant understand. i dont seem to be compatible with people.

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Old Nov 12, 2010, 12:54 PM
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Old Nov 12, 2010, 02:33 PM
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Suzzie, many of us here were raised like this. We reached adulthood and found ourselves isolated from others. There are many reasons for this and it can all be worked through. Two of the reasons are we were raised in families that didn't interact so we didn't learn the skills, and we are afraid to trust so we keep people back away from us. Both of these can be worked on in and outside of therapy.
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Old Nov 13, 2010, 01:54 AM
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Both of these can be worked on in and outside of therapy.
just wondering is it possible to work on all issues outside of t. is t just one of several options available.
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Old Nov 13, 2010, 12:55 PM
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my last post is super stupid. just ignore it please. dont know what is up with me lately. sorry.
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Old Nov 14, 2010, 09:17 PM
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Old Nov 16, 2010, 03:02 PM
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