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Old Oct 30, 2010, 07:17 PM
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does it matter if a child was s/a by an adult while another adult was present, saw it and did nothing and then distracted a third adult from noticing.



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Old Oct 30, 2010, 07:34 PM
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(((suzzie))) I am so sorry to hear you were treated that way. Your feelings are your own however if that happened to me I would have a real problem with not just the person who committed the act of SA but also with the person that saw it did nothing and then distracted another adult from noticing. My blood is boiling right now that you went through that experience.
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Old Oct 30, 2010, 08:28 PM
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Yes, suzzie, the word Accomplice springs to mind.
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Old Oct 30, 2010, 08:47 PM
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geez, i dont seem to have any feelings for these kind of memories. didnt mean to upset anyone. sorry.

Gus1234U, i so hope you are wrong. you have to be. because of who the three adults were. especially the one who saw it and did nothing.
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Old Oct 31, 2010, 08:57 AM
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Suzzie, I'm really sorry that this happened to you. It wasn't right at all. Coming to terms with what adults did who were supposed to be taking care of us is a big part of healing. Some adults are just sick and they shouldn't have any access to children.
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Old Oct 31, 2010, 12:01 PM
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geez, i dont seem to have any feelings for these kind of memories. didnt mean to upset anyone. sorry.
Hi Suzzie please don't be sorry about anything. Me being upset is my problem not yours and you did nothing wrong. I am in charge of my own feelings and no one else is to blame for me having them. I completely understand when you say you don't have any feelings for these kind of memories. I am sitting here feeling angry for what was done to you yet I don't have that same anger for my experience with CSA. I can empathize with others who have these experiences but can't connect with my own feelings on this topic (as to my personal experience).

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Old Oct 31, 2010, 02:21 PM
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Some adults are just sick and they shouldn't have any access to children.
you are right. i remember this man, a family friend, would sometimes look like a drooling dog when he saw me. he wanted it so bad.

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