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Nov 03, 2010, 11:00 PM
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I was 10:
a girl came on to me sexually. Now, I'm 21. And the porn that interests me is girl on girl. where one girl violates another. is this just a coincidence? my problem is, I really can't remember how bad the experience was when I was little it could have been just kissing and fondling. or, it could have been just fondling and nothing else. I remember snapshots of it and specific words. so, it just makes it hard. cuz now I am extremley attracted to women and I don't know if its because porn can like change someones mind or if its because of what happened to me or maybe I just overanalyzed it all I think I did...and then it made me even more confused. the thing is, when i first looked at porn I had no idea what would interest me but, i immediatly only found interest in girl on girl and usually a violation aspect to it. also, I've never had a boyfriend. so maybe whenever that happens all of this will clear up. however...I am 21 and never had a boyfriend so I am afraid it'll be too late and I will be too attracted to girls by then??? help please!
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Nov 04, 2010, 11:38 AM
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I hope some of what I'm saying makes sense. I hope you find peace with yourself and honor who you are whatever that means for you.
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Nov 04, 2010, 10:10 PM
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a lot of that made sense...thank you geez
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--- A bird doesn't sing because it has all the answers, it sings because it has a song.Maya Angelou. so sing. Jazz, sing. --jazzy123456 ---------------------------- "You're not here merely to make a living. You are here to enable the world to live more amply, with greater vision, and with a finer spirit of hope and achievement. You are here to enrich the world. You impoverish yourself if you forget this errand." (Woodrow Wilson)
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Nov 05, 2010, 07:13 AM
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Jazzy, that you are interested in the violation part of the porn, this is something that needs to be worked through in therapy. (Along with working through what happened to you when you were 10.
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