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Dec 04, 2010, 02:57 PM
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I'm not at all mad just working through this but, people have told me through psychcentral....don't you think you were just two kids exploring sexually?....well, if I knew the answer to that I don't think I would be having problems. And if it was my choice, and it wasn't invasive maybe I wouldnt care. And if I did not have a reaction to it years later...that happened abrubtly,....then maybe I wouldn't care. If I was the one who initiated what happened when I was little and I did not cry or feel scared when it happened...then maybe I could go with that thought. YES! I would love to think, we were just two kids exploring...when i was little...but, I can't think that because I cannot remember that. I only remember that I did not want to "explore." I was just trying to sleep. So, apparently, what happened to me will always be minimized. although, it is randomly effecting me years later...
its just two kids exploring right? although, now its hard to seperate violation from sex. its just two kids exploring right? yeah. this stinks? 
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Dec 04, 2010, 03:17 PM
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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Dec 05, 2010, 05:20 PM
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even as a kid you had a right to say no and be safe in your home, if you did not want to explore then it should not have happened, if it did then it is abuse and no one has the right to say it was anything else. the fact it is affecting you years later screams abuse to me regardless of the other parties age.
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Dec 09, 2010, 03:07 AM
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You know its wierd, that was the only part of the paragraph I reread to myself as well...it just dawned on me...i was like, yeah...we werent two kids exploring cuz I definitley didn't want too..its like i ended up answering my own questions as i wrote my feelings.
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Dec 09, 2010, 03:08 AM
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THANk YOu. Thank You. Thank You. 
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