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Nov 29, 2010, 12:49 PM
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I'm one of those people that still deals with the abuser maybe we not together but the communication may still be there..and i forgive and forget an pretend it never happen and possible still long to be with that person ..and i don't want to do that anymore whats wrong with me...is this common
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Nov 30, 2010, 04:46 AM
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It is very common with domestic violence survivors. Is therapy an option so that you can work through all this stuff?
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Nov 30, 2010, 09:56 PM
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I want therapy but when I talk to family members, friends, or even my parents about it they give negative cognitations for getting therapy like why do I need some to tell me what's wrong and to stay positive... They just don't understand or can even see that I'm in another situation after another because of pretending everything fine
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Dec 01, 2010, 03:25 AM
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Do you need their approval to go to therapy?
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Dec 02, 2010, 01:06 AM
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No they aren't but I wish I had support rather than being told oh think positive that does nothing for my brokenness
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Dec 02, 2010, 01:40 AM
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Maybe they don't want therapy...but since you do, then why not do something that you want for a change? Who knows, maybe after they see how you are learning to deal with your brokeness in a positive way and are becoming a healthier person, they may come around
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Dec 02, 2010, 05:39 AM
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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Dec 02, 2010, 01:43 PM
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Thank you guys I think I will give it a shot
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Dec 02, 2010, 08:38 PM
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Thank you .. I will give it a try that's the best thing I believe
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Dec 03, 2010, 02:14 PM
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Great! Please continue to keep us posted okay?
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Dec 04, 2010, 01:42 AM
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I will its just this is something that im just starting to deal with
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Dec 04, 2010, 01:00 PM
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