[ickydog2006]

I'm so tired of blaming myself for everything. Everytime I get hurt (emotionally) I blame myself. No matter how many people tell me it is not my fault .... I just can't help it. I don't know what to do anymore. It is tearing me apart.

[kimmydawn]

i know, when working with t, it's easier to self blame than it is to think that someone would so easily hurt me...without shame or remorse.

it might apply here or not, but could be someting to think about?

whatever the reason, it's miserable.

be safe,

kd

[bipolar_bear]

Try and listen to those people who are telling you it is not your fault. I know that is such a hard thing to do. Keep working at hearing the truth rather than what your currently telling yourself. Take care and try and be nice to yourself.

((((((((Ickydog))))))))))
It's easy to beat yourself up after someone else has beaten you up. You feel like somehow you deserve it. Why else would they beat you up, if you didn't deserve it?

I understand those feelings all too well.

I hope you can turn this around. You're getting "tired of it" is a good sign. You'll get through this.

Blaming come with abuse.

For me I think that when I get abuse off my feelings gets makes up and I turn the blame on myself maybe because I don't understand and I wouldn't do this to another person.

Being abuse off is so destroying. I'm sorry this is happening to you in your present or pass.

Take good care!
Many hugs!

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