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Nov 29, 2011, 02:22 AM
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**sorry graphic and may trigger**
trying to understand some stuff still 1. why are **** and oral are considered intercourse. 2. what would you consider this: someone trying to force his limp part in you with both his hands. and asking you to help too. pressing it firmly against. but not in. (its ok if its nothing)
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Nov 29, 2011, 03:35 AM
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1. Intercourse (in the Collins English Dictionary and Thesaurus), says (noun)act of having sex.
Sexual acts are varied when with partners (who love each other). 2. Clumsy. Inexperienced. Shy. (maybe), I don't know the level of the relationship this is so that's a guess.
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Nov 29, 2011, 11:18 AM
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This is a sexual act and I'm assuming you were not willing and a minor?
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Nov 29, 2011, 12:22 PM
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i apologize for this post. it is so wrong. i should have deleted it. sorry.
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Nov 29, 2011, 02:31 PM
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Suzzie, you are trying to sort out in you mind what happened to you. Talking about what happened to you is totally appropriate.
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Nov 29, 2011, 05:17 PM
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You are talking about it.
You are innocent. What happened to you was s*x*al abuse. What happened to you was bad, not you. I am glad you are sharing with us and breaking that silence. Whether his **** was limp or not, he was still forcing it on you. Oral and **** is intercourse because he is still engaging in s*x*al acts with you with his organ. So sorry this happened and so sorry you feel so embarrassed. Why do us survivors feel we have to feel this way when the shame and guilt belong to the abusers?! Billi
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Nov 29, 2011, 10:32 PM
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thank you everyone
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Last edited by suzzie; Nov 30, 2011 at 12:04 AM. |
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Nov 30, 2011, 03:00 AM
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Hello Suzzie. I saw the post as 'consenting adults'. I thought it was odd for me to see it that way.
It was the way I read it. Sorry. Its abuse. I am sorry you have had to endure that sort of treatment, no one ever should be exposed to such horrors. Its a really messed up world sometimes. I would contact the authorities, or try to find an escape through another source (family or friends). If you are away from this person already then you are recovering and healing. An ex partner in the 90s was raped by two young men, she asked me at the time what she should do.....I straight away called the police, and with the police came a support network for her. 1 of the young men had already confessed to his mother what he had done (obviously this woman/mother went wild) because when the police arrived they said they had already caught them. They both went to prison. Another ex partner I was with for a long time was attacked twice (she got away both times), she asked me what should be done.......I always maintain its a duty to report sexual crimes to the police always. If not reported then the 'support network' that are set up for victims are harder to find. I hoped this helped. Take good care.
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#9
Nov 30, 2011, 03:45 AM
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its ok sanada
 i dont put enough information in my posts.
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