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Old Jul 24, 2012, 05:02 PM
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Just got the call from prison. My father's counselor called. Said he's ready to be released. To the community by the end of the year. I am a mess right know. And to think I have to have surgery on my foot on Thursday after hearing that news really sucks bad I don't think i can do it. Oh this can't be. those bastards are gonna let my father out. I just can't believe it. I knew this day would come. thedore I really need you know more than ever. I miss you so much.

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Old Jul 24, 2012, 05:36 PM
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I really don't know what to say right now, I'm ill-equipped, but would like to offer my ears, I will always be here to listen. Please be good to yourself, be kind to Avoibe during this traumatic time. I wish I could offer you some comfort and wisdom, but I'll be listening for your voice
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Old Jul 24, 2012, 06:43 PM
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Old Jul 24, 2012, 06:54 PM
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I'm so sorry...I do not know the whole story.....about who you are missing...but you again cannot let him win....the surgery is for you to make you better. Try and go thru with it but if its too much then of course there is always another time...go back to the therapist, or go to the crisis ctr today to talk.....sorry ..don't let him win again though.....

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Old Jul 24, 2012, 07:37 PM
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I'm so sorry...I do not know the whole story.....about who you are missing...but you again cannot let him win....the surgery is for you to make you better. Try and go thru with it but if its too much then of course there is always another time...go back to the therapist, or go to the crisis ctr today to talk.....sorry ..don't let him win again though.....

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Old Jul 26, 2012, 08:40 AM
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i remember theodore i'm so sorry you're having so much going on at once. please try your best to put yourself first, and worry about your surgery and your own health more than anything.
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Old Jul 26, 2012, 09:58 PM
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I am so sorry avoice that you are dealing with this

...I also don't know the whole story, but "ready to be released from prison"??? Does he understand WHAT he did? Does he understand WHY it was wrong? Is he aware of all of the consequences and results and everything else afterwards that happened??? This just seems so unfair and wrong.



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Old Jul 27, 2012, 12:55 AM
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I am so sorry avoice that you are dealing with this

...I also don't know the whole story, but "ready to be released from prison"??? Does he understand WHAT he did? Does he understand WHY it was wrong? Is he aware of all of the consequences and results and everything else afterwards that happened??? This just seems so unfair and wrong.



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my father will never be cured. It's not in him he's a high risk sex offender.
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Old Jul 28, 2012, 09:56 AM
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I am really sorry to hear this and will be thinking of you and hoping you will be able to really take great care of yourself around this - you deserve the best!
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Old Jul 29, 2012, 10:59 PM
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Oh I'm so sorry (((avoice))))))

Is there away you can get an order of protection?

Do you have safe places you can go to and Safe people and Safe Support systems.

Your so in my thoughts (((avoice)))) I I think IF you have your "ducks in a row" and you have safe people for support etc... Hopefully that by going day by day Life won't seem so overwhelming.

crossing fingers and UM.....................

if you want I can be one of your Safe Support people in a heartbeat......

(((avoice)))) and yes this is much easier to say then do but lets try to see if you can live your life the way you choose to and that it gets to a point that he will disappear from your life. Trying to stay positive and grounded to help you hopefully you will do the same.

You are very strong and I know you don't feel strong yet when I get to talk to me you seem very together and very strong. I wouldn't mess with you!

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