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Old Jun 18, 2006, 08:44 PM
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As some of you know I have been struggling with whether a 12 year old knows right from wrong and have really thought it was my fault what happened to me.

Well, today, I realized the beauty of forgiveness is that it doesn't matter if someone is worthy or unworthy of it>>>
This was a huge revelation for me.

I came to the conclusion >> It doesn't matter if my Little knew right from wrong. She was manipulated. She had no choice.
She should not be blamed!
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Old Jun 18, 2006, 09:23 PM
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((((TS)))) good for you! WOW what healing is taking place for you!
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Old Jun 18, 2006, 10:35 PM
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I am so glad you have come to see this. It is a huge step in healing. I am so happy for you. Take care

I Forgave my Little today.... I Forgave my Little today.... I Forgave my Little today....
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Thats wonderful and soooooooo correct!!!
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Old Jun 19, 2006, 08:45 AM
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I came to the conclusion >> It doesn't matter if my Little knew right from wrong. She was manipulated. She had no choice.
She should not be blamed!

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(((( hugs )))) - Good for YOU for seeing that YOU were not in the wrong and that YOU are worthy. She was NEVER at fault.... she was just being her when some one else took advantage of her.

People need to know that............... Our "actions" have consequences to Others.


LoVe,
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I Forgave my Little today.... I Forgave my Little today.... I Forgave my Little today.... I Forgave my Little today.... I Forgave my Little today.... I Forgave my Little today.... I Forgave my Little today....
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Old Jun 19, 2006, 02:15 PM
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I feel much lighter today.
I called my T and left her a message yesterday about it.
She called this morning and said she is so happy for me and so proud of the work I am doing.
I meet with her tonight which I am very happy about because I haven't seen her in 2 weeks because of a family emergency on her part.

I cannot believe how freeing of a feeling it is to let Little know she is not to blame at all.
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