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Jan 24, 2013, 09:44 PM
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It's not really abuse but i fell like in a way this fits here...please correct me if i'm wrong.
Theres this kid in my english class. In 6 th and 7th grade he used to touch me...u name it he touched it...or at least tried. Last year he talked about it all the time and how he was going to touch ne again. This year he asked if i remember when he "practically raped" me and also when he molested me....i have to sit next to him and i find myslef bracing, flinching and stiffening whith every move he makes. He grabbed my butt the other day because i was ignoring him...i told myself that i would talk to a counsler this year and talk about how we could work out a possible schedule for next year in which we wouldnt share classes but everytime i try i tell myself its stupid and i shouldnt dwell on it...i just cant bring myself to tell an adult but i know i have to do something.:/ |
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#2
Jan 25, 2013, 10:08 AM
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Hi MPJ, welcome to PC. Yes, please seek out adult help! Please continue to keep us posted on how you are doing. We can support you while you seek help.
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Jan 25, 2013, 06:21 PM
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I cant make myself do it though. I feel like I'm overreacting sometimes:/ and whenever i try to talk about it i get uncomfortable. I tried to tell a friend and i worried that she would think i was being stupid and never ended up telling her. I don't know how to actually make myself tell.
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Jan 26, 2013, 09:16 AM
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Of course you are going to be uncomfortable telling. I have felt uncomfortable with every single important thing I have tackled like this. This is normal and expected. Maybe make a plan to tell the counselor or a teacher?
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Jan 26, 2013, 09:45 AM
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Ok...i can do that. Do you think it would be acceptable for me to email him with what's going on that way when i go in he already knows?
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Jan 27, 2013, 12:14 PM
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Yeah, I think that sounds like a good plan.
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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