appology

My mom appologized at least admited that she was abusive to me. I was shocked. Granted she was drinking when she admit it. but she will never ever admit what my stepfather did to me . to her he is still perfect. His family is nice at least what i know of but he wasn't.
i am so lost right now i dont know which way i am turning.

I understand being lost It's very positive that your mom apologized (even if she was drinking............none of my abusers ever apologized to me)

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well... that's probably a good step, people will often say what they really feel while drinking, things that they wouldn't otherwise say...

A warning though, my father apologised for all that he did, said he realised it was wrong, how he was sorry and had changed... but it ended up being more mind games.
probabaly not the same for you, and I don't want to put a dampaner upon what should be a positive strp, just a warning...


I can perfectly understand how you will feel lost. just take it one step at a time, see how things go, in time she may realise/admit what your step-father did too. give yourself some time to absorb what happened, espessially if the apology/admitance was unexpected

good luck