[InACorner]

My boyfriend and his parents are pretty much done with me

i just called my real father, my alcoholic stoned father and asked if i could come live with him. Of course he said yes.

So i guess im going to live with him. Interesting. I wonder what he will do to me

no inny dont go there
are there some refuges around u for women
go to the ed and tell them that ur homeless
dont put urself in a potential abuse situation
living with ur father doesnt sound positive

[froggie2]

I agree. You need to be in a positive place with positive people.

[Juliana]

I'm so sorry you're in this situation, Inny. You don't deserve it and it sucks.

How about contacting your local community or social services department? Where I live there are wonderful, supportive homes available for young people who aren't getting that support at home. There's probably something like that in your area. You could be given a room in a home with other people your age -- and have the opportunity to make friends and feel SAFE and protected.

You shouldn't have to go back to your father's. Talk to a social worker about your situation (or a school councillor) and tell them about your situation.

Good luck, sweetie. (((Hugs)))

[mtd]

Inny,

I have a friend who would say to me at a time like this, "I'm not sure that's your healthiest choice."

I really urge you to look for other options. Your note sounds so much like you're just surrendering to whatever pain and abuse might be put on you. You deserve better than that. You really do. You can take control.

be well,

mtd