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Old Jun 24, 2015, 02:12 AM
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I almost made a false accusation against a staff today. It is not a staff that is hurting me it is a housemate. She touches me where I do not want to be touched. I get scared and freeze and let her do what she wants. Sometimes I enjoy it but other times it hurts and makes me feel dirty and ashamed. Things are not right with her. I am afraid to report her because she is violent. I am afraid to fight her. She can honestly take over me and over power me I believe is what the word is. I know this is stupid but I feel dirty writing this right now, because tonight she and I walked to the grocery store and she did it while we were gone. I somewhat told my staff but I doubt anything will happen. Other than me get beat to a bloody mess.
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Old Jun 25, 2015, 02:58 AM
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I hope you find some comfort soon

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Old Jun 25, 2015, 05:11 PM
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Sounds like a sexual predator that is a bully. Where are you living? You mentioned staff. Keep telling someone until they listen. It is NEVER alright for someone to hurt you. If she is violent that is even more reason to report. I was sexually abused as a small child (3 or 4). I am now 54 and dealing with it because back then things like that were not talked about. Don't let anyone have that kind of power over you.
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Old Jun 25, 2015, 08:58 PM
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I finally told a staff tonight. He wants me to talk to the house supervisor. Oh, I live in an adult group home. She has been doing this to me on and off ever since she moved in. I have made false accusations before and I know they will not believe me so why even try to talk to the house supervisor. I have been abused since I was 4 years old. Or at least that is my first memory of it.
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Old Jun 30, 2015, 01:00 AM
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If I were in your shoes, I would just start screaming in a horrified manner, at the top of my lungs, like seriously crazy holy **** screaming, like everyone-in-the-area-comes-running-to-see-wtf-is-happening screaming. It might feel really embarrassing, weird or awkward. But not as embarrassing, weird or awkward as being randomly molested, so go for it.
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