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Feb 01, 2016, 01:48 PM
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My husband has been sayig for a while not that when i am on my period i get stupid. He has been getting increasingly mean to me during this time for the last two years. At first it was just calling me stupid. Then it was not letting me going anywhere with him because he could not "bear my stupidity". Lately he has refused to let me drive because i am "too stupid and unable to learn".
I dont notice anyhing different in my behavior or my attitude or anything other than the fact that i am on my period. I think he just automatically comes up with this idea when i tell him i started. I have tried just not telling him but he demands to know. If he wants to have sex and i dont tell him until then he gets furious. (He says the bible says that it is wrong to have sex durin this time. ) Anyway...i just get flustered and upset. I dred this whole time of the month because he does not give me a break( not like he ever does anyway) and he acts like i disgust him. |
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#2
Feb 01, 2016, 03:36 PM
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He's being horribly sexist and abusive. Has this attitude recently started?
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Feb 01, 2016, 03:45 PM
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Sounds like he's irrationally upset and abusive during your menstrual cycle because he's not getting any...
How horrible, and highly hypocritical, since the Bible tells him not to have sex with you, I wonder what part of the Bible instructs him to disrespect and abuse his wife.
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#4
Feb 01, 2016, 04:56 PM
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This is called verbal abuse: THe Verbally Abusive Relationship by Patricia Evans saved my life. This is what abusers do......they are irrational; if you were really "stupid" , etc....why is he with you??!! Don't respond to his abuse, except simply t say yo will NOT be disrespected and then REMOVE yourself; walk away or hang up the phone. You wouldn't let anyone throw rocks at you, that is what is doing verbally
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Feb 01, 2016, 05:01 PM
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His abuse is nothig new. This is just a relatively new way to go about it. Seems like it is always something
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Feb 05, 2016, 03:29 PM
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Feb 05, 2016, 04:25 PM
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Do you want to do something about stopping the abuse?
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