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Old Feb 09, 2016, 02:18 PM
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The mother did not love me.
She hurt, abused and rejected me.
Just how does that make me "weak"?

How does that make me "never good enough"

Maybe it does

In the perception of the .......

Well **** you, you're ****ing Wrong WRONG

It does seem that having been abused in childhood I've "attracted" more than my "fair share" of abusers throughout most of my life GROWL

Some of the worst are "health care peeps who don't give a ****ing damn

(This is not about anyone on PC)
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Old Feb 09, 2016, 04:53 PM
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We don't attract abusers...it is just that there are so many of them. Can't swing a cat without hitting one; never blame yourself for abusers that come into your life. I had a mother like that then a "husband" for 31 years like that......My Ph.d. is in red flags now, LOL
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Old Feb 09, 2016, 06:02 PM
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I'm right there with you Fuzzy! I am not a perfect mother by a long shot, but my kids always know I've got them. <3
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Old Feb 10, 2016, 12:05 AM
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