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Old Apr 16, 2016, 03:59 PM
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When youre 45 years old and had to move back in with your parents because you got divorced and had no money. And when your kid misbehaves you take their phone away. So youre kid screams because they want their phone. so your father comes running to find out why your kid is screaming. So then your father punches you in the face and tells you, that you are kicked out of the house because there is always yelling when you are around.

There is always yelling when I am around because I actually tell my kids what to do, such as do their homework. When I am working my kids do whatever they want and refuse to do homework. So when I tell them to do their homework, they scream!1

So I get punched in face for it by my father (their grandfather) while they watch. I am told I am kicked out of the house but they can stay. So I say, "the kids are coming with me", and my father says, "where are they going to go????"

Is this abuse even though I know I shouldn't be living with them. I would rather live in a tent then with them. I hate them!

I am also told what to do in mean voices by them all the time, they have nothing positive to say to me. I am always doing something wrong, I have to make sure I don't' make a noise, because they will come yelling at me. One day, I walked into house after work and took a pan out of the cabinet to make some dinner and I GOT YELLED AT because I made a noise. "YOU BETTER NOT BE BREAKING THINGS OUT THERE!! I was putting groceries away and I opened a cabinet!!!!

they also give me evil looks whenever I walk by. I cant dress up around them or wear makeup because they will get embarrassed mean faces.

How messed up am I
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Old Apr 16, 2016, 04:10 PM
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Hello fijiisland: This certainly qualifies as abuse in the Skeezyks' book! Absolutely no one should be treated that way. I'm sorry you are having to subsist under these conditions.
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Old Apr 16, 2016, 04:25 PM
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Yes, this is abuse.

You don't have to continue to live in it, nor do you have to go live in a tent.

The National Domestic Violence Hotline | 24/7 Confidential Support
1-800-799-7233

Contact them and they will put you in touch with local resources that can help you and your children get out of this horrid environment and help you get back on your feet again where you and your children won't have to go back to live in an abusive environment ever again!

Sincerely,
Pfrog!

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