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#1
Oct 22, 2016, 10:05 AM
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My abusive ex boyfriend (who I dated when I was 14, he was 24,)
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It was a really simple text like: "hey kori, it's _____ text me here's my work #______________" I blocked the number but I'm trying really hard not to freak out He tried to add me on facebook recently and I had to block him then too and it's just spiraling I'm scared because he knows where I live and I'm worried he may try to come to my house randomly. I think he won't because he's had my address for years and hasn't randomly dropped by but he hasnt had a reason to before... I dont want to go to the police, I called them when I was 14 about him and they just said it was my fault, told me they'd "see what they could do" and left and never contacted me again. I'm pretty sure they threw out my case so I don't think I can get a restraining order against him ,
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So I don't think I could prove to the court that he's a threat to me anymore, especially since I'm not 14 and I'm sure the court will say he was a pedophile and I'm 21 now I dont know what to do. I blocked his number so hopefully that is the end of that, but I'm still pretty scared |
 Anonymous50284, growlycat, MtnTime2896, Open Eyes
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#2
Oct 22, 2016, 10:28 AM
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Have you talked about this to anyone besides the police? Im sorry this is happening and what he did... You are very strong and are right to never let him in your life again. Please get help from someone you trust.
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#3
Oct 23, 2016, 10:34 AM
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i have talked to my parents about it,
they said to call the police, but its up to me.... I dont want to cal the police after what happened they will want to know details that I'm not ready to give yet |
| Anonymous50284
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Oct 23, 2016, 01:55 PM
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You are being wise by not engaging him IMO. He should not believe you are afraid of him because often that gives an abusive individual a sense of power where they may pursue further. By not engaging "you" have the power and that is what you need to maintain.
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#5
Oct 23, 2016, 02:10 PM
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The only way I would engage him is to send him a text telling him that if he ever tried to contact me again in any way, shape or form that I'd go to the authorities about what he did to me when I was a minor.
SOB's like this make me mad as the hot place! 
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Oct 23, 2016, 02:12 PM
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I agree...by not engaging with this individual you have the power.
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Oct 25, 2016, 04:37 PM
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Engaging in any way often fuels an abusers intent.....no contact whatsoever is the safest way to go.
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The devil whispered in my ear, "You cannot withstand the storm." I whispered back, "I am the storm." 
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