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Old Feb 10, 2017, 04:40 AM
BlueAngel109 BlueAngel109 is offline
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For once in my life, I am so proud of myself! I confronted my abuser in an email. I had enough guts to talk about certain situations, and tell him how wrong he really was! I feel so happy, and free! He wrote back, of course taking absolutely no responsibility for his actions, but I exspected nothing less. I feel so empowered, like his hold over me is gone. I still have to process the memories, and deal with what he did, but I did it. I took back the power he took from me! He has no hold on me anymore, and thats so liberating! I will survive after all! Thanks for listening!
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Old Feb 10, 2017, 07:19 AM
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That is called Restorative Justice..which s ays....this is whatyou did, this is how it made me feel. SO empowering. Congratulations!
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Old Feb 13, 2017, 05:36 PM
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Well done,Blue Angel,I am so pleased and happy for you.Keep it up,wash that prick out of your hair!
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Old Feb 13, 2017, 06:22 PM
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Awesome!
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Old Feb 17, 2017, 02:23 PM
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Good Job!!!
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Old Feb 23, 2017, 03:08 PM
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Well done BlueAngel! You must feel powerful after doing that.
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Old Feb 28, 2017, 02:24 PM
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YAY! Congrats. You deserve it!
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Old Mar 01, 2017, 09:25 AM
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That is awesome. I am so proud for you!!
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Old Mar 01, 2017, 09:37 AM
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`WELL DONE` BlueAngel109.

I can empathise with your elation and euphoria of taking back and control of your life!
I to confronted my abuser (Dads` sister) 29 yrs after it happened (Age 6) for an answer! `AND GUESS WHAT` The same answer as yours`!!!!
I hate her now and I don't` have anything too do with her no-more! ( could not tell me dad, as this was a sign of weakness!!!)

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