that I love my son.. with all my heart.. and with all my soul... so much so..that.. I made sure.. I stayed in therapy.. for 23 years... not that I was a danger... but I wanted to be the very best Mom.. I could be.. I put my whole.. being into ... being a Mom... and a Dad.. for my son..

I ask myself... why.. what is it.. about me... that made me so very.. very unloveable... not by my mom... not by my dad.. and not by my sister..

stick.. a sign.. on my forehead.. that say "unloveable"... spell it frontwards ... and backwards.. so I too can see it in the mirror.. and know.. what I am..

[Fuzzybear]

((((((((((((( freewill )))))))))))))))
not unloveable, you're wonderful and brave

[sabby]

Maybe the question should be -

Why did my family not have the capacity to love me?

You are NOT unlovable .... your family was unable to provide you with love....there is a huge difference.


sabby

[bchlyn]

freewill... in the short time i have known you ... i see you as a very loving parent... who would do anything it takes to be there for her child... their is nothing unloving or unlovable about you... that is the message our abusers put in our head... and was how they were able to do the things they did to us... i remember thinking how lucky i was to have a husband who loved me... grrrrrrr.... now i see the truth... he wasn't capable of love... Lyn

you and i are loveable Freewill (wow did i just say that)!!!!!!

It was and is our parents who are at fault .... Sabby is so right ...... they made us think we are not(and of course anyone out there who feels the same and has been treated as such)

WE ARE LOVEABLE...... YOU ARE LOVEABLE, YOU ARE LOVED ..... ALWAYS WILL BE ....... hugs, lots of love and care to you every day from me ...... (((((((((((Freewill))))))))))))))))))

you are a wonderful mother ........ your son is so lucky to have a mom like you ...... hugs, Kerry xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo