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Oct 03, 2008, 08:49 PM
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Why am I to blame for my husband beating me??? Why was it my fault?? Why did the neighbors never call the police??
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Oct 03, 2008, 08:51 PM
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((((((((((((((sunshine & freewill)))))))))))) Though we often are convinced that we are to blame, please believe you are NEVER to blame for someone else hurting you. NEVER. It is NEVER your fault.
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Oct 04, 2008, 06:58 AM
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its not your fault......not at all and you have to believe that...
think about it as if you were the abuser.. if you beat to a pulp a helpless child or tiny kitten.....are they to blame....even if they made a mistake and upset you...there is NO Excuse... and NOTHING in this WORLD excuses HIM for what HE did to YOU>.... You are an innocent woman...taken advantage of by someone meant to care....and that is the easiest situation to let it continue to happen... be still....try and relax your body and mind...for you did nothing wrong and you deserve a moment of peace....peace throughout your body and peace of mind.... love steppalee |
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Oct 04, 2008, 07:01 AM
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there is a simple explanation as to why the neighbours never called the police....
a well researched and studied explanation... THE BYSTANDER EFFECT.... the more people around you who could hear what was happening the less likely it is to be reported... because everyone assumes someone else MUST have reported that...so they don't need to worry... research it...and you may understand more.. hope it helps... steppa |
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