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Old Feb 21, 2009, 11:41 AM
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It's going to take a long time for me to recover from what I've been through in my life. I've been through so much hell that I've become a bitter person. I'm going to see if I find some counseling because my suffering has become a lot worse. Maybe proscribe a new medication. I try to look at the bright side of things of my life but it's not so easy when I'm feeling so miserably. Hopefully very good counseling will help me heal through my sufferings.. But right now I'm still miserable and bitter...

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Old Feb 21, 2009, 07:34 PM
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Taking time to Heal.. DO YOU THINK I WAS SERIOUS ABOUT THAT POST? NOT!!!!!!!!!Taking time to Heal..
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Old Feb 22, 2009, 12:06 AM
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Not for sure...... ((( hugs )))

in case you were serious... just know that there is HOPE.
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Old Feb 22, 2009, 09:44 AM
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Taking time to Heal.. DO YOU THINK I WAS SERIOUS ABOUT THAT POST? NOT!!!!!!!!!Taking time to Heal..
actually i do think you were serious about your previous post. there is hope, DBS, and with help from a T you can move on to a better and happier life. i hope you will reconsider this post. i feel your heart was talking to us in the first post. we care about you and you do matter.
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Old Feb 22, 2009, 10:31 AM
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Yes , i do think that you were serious . And i can tell you from experience that counseling does help , you dont have to be miserable .. things can and will get better.
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Old Feb 22, 2009, 04:04 PM
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Thank you guys, that type of support is what I really needed. I'm just so sick of some people feeding me this "STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF & DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT" B.S.,
It DIDN'T help me
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Old Feb 22, 2009, 04:14 PM
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deep blue sea - i am the same way sometimes..

sounds like you've got a good plan there - glad that you're acknowledging your feelings and realizing that there is work to do on them. they can be overwhelming and i wouldn't blame anyone for becoming bitter and cynical for what people in this forum have gone through.

it's kinda like those people asking "why so sad? cheer up, life is good, get over it" - i always feel like giving them a good punch in the face, or at least saying "it's people like you that don't help".

you're not alone - i hope you find help soon. this is a good place to start, though.

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Old Feb 22, 2009, 05:28 PM
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It's going to take a long time for me to recover from what I've been through in my life. I've been through so much hell that I've become a bitter person. I'm going to see if I find some counseling because my suffering has become a lot worse. Maybe proscribe a new medication. I try to look at the bright side of things of my life but it's not so easy when I'm feeling so miserably. Hopefully very good counseling will help me heal through my sufferings.. But right now I'm still miserable and bitter...
Do I think you are serious about this????????
Yep!!!!!!

Do I think you have been terribly hurt????
Yep!!!!!

Do I think you are special to me????
Yep!!!!

Take care (((( Deep Blue ))))

you know i care about you.
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Old Feb 22, 2009, 06:47 PM
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Do I think you are serious about this????????
Yep!!!!!!

Do I think you have been terribly hurt????
Yep!!!!!

Do I think you are special to me????
Yep!!!!

Take care (((( Deep Blue ))))

you know i care about you.
((((free2beme )))) You're so sweet...
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Old Feb 22, 2009, 10:43 PM
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I'm so sorry you are going thru a miserable time in your life. Please know we care and are here to help in anyway we can. talk away when your ready.
Thanks for this!
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Old Feb 23, 2009, 12:07 AM
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I'm so sorry you are going thru a miserable time in your life. Please know we care and are here to help in anyway we can. talk away when your ready.
You're sweet too...
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Old Feb 23, 2009, 10:25 AM
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DBS, I think that you wrote this thread and came back 8 hours later and no one responded and some things went through your head about that and you lashed out. I think that it would be good for you to understand what was going through your head and to understand that it is slow here on the weekends and fewer people are here to respond to posts.

DBS, I care about you too and I see that you need people to reach out to you. I am so willing to reach out to you. On the other hand I am an honest person too and I don't play games. I tell it like I see it and I don't think that the truth is a bad thing. The truth can hurt but it isn't a bad thing because the truth helps......... I will try to accompany my truth with love but I won't stuff the truth.................
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Old Feb 23, 2009, 05:29 PM
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Other people were not put on this earth to make you happy..
No Kidding!!

Well I wasn't put on this earth to kiss people's ***es either...

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Old Feb 24, 2009, 10:35 AM
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Well I wasn't put on this earth to kiss people's ***es either...
So it is somewhere in the middle then.................
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Old Feb 24, 2009, 04:28 PM
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So it is somewhere in the middle then.................
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Old Feb 24, 2009, 06:22 PM
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Sometimes we just need to be heard.. that's all,,just heard.

I hope you know Deep Blue that many of us have heard you...

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