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Old Nov 19, 2017, 10:19 AM
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hi i'm licia and i want my mommy because i do and i want her to give me a cuddle and stuff and i want her to read me a story and i want my mommy

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Old Dec 15, 2017, 03:24 AM
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does no one here want to be my mommy awww that is sad awwwww
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Old Dec 16, 2017, 01:31 AM
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does no one here want to be my mommy awww that is sad awwwww
Im sorry alisha but I dont think there is anyone here that can be your mommy.

Sure I could play pretend with you but then that might hurt you more, so its better that we dont pretend to be each others people like each others therapists, doctors, mommies and all that kinds of stuff that can hurt each other...

what I can do is tell you what I did for when my own alters were feeling like they wanted someone to take care of them. I made a list of things that they could do for their self...

Rainy could go find her teddy bear and blanket and make a pb and j sandwich and watch tv. this always made her feel better and she saw that she didnt need someone else to take care of her, she could do it all by herself.

when another one of my alters felt like they needed someone to give them a hug, the list said they could wrap a blanket around their shoulders and lay against a warm pillow.

can you think of anything that would make you feel better and do that for yourself? maybe you can make your own list of things that you can do to make yourself feel better.
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Old Dec 16, 2017, 06:25 PM
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Hello, little one. You can call me V. Do you want a hug? Here you go.
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 06:47 AM
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Hello, little one. You can call me V. Do you want a hug? Here you go.


yay I like cuddles I do thank you
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 12:10 PM
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yay I like cuddles I do thank you
How about some ice cream? Does that sound yummy? Maybe go to the Mall?
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Old Dec 18, 2017, 10:59 AM
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How about some ice cream? Does that sound yummy? Maybe go to the Mall?
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Old Dec 18, 2017, 02:41 PM
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(((( hugs )))) i want to be your friend and give you hugs am ki am 4 i like kitties and my 2 daddys look after me and the other littles i love my 2 daddys
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Old Dec 22, 2017, 03:38 PM
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((((( licia )))))

I’m sending safe hugs
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Old Dec 24, 2017, 02:48 PM
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hey ki do you have any kitties of your own i really want a budgie or a puppy dog or a rabbit or a ***** cat or something

i don't have any animals and i want one

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Old Dec 25, 2017, 03:21 PM
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Hi Shattered Sanity,

I just wanted to say I empathize with you so much. I don't have DID, but I do have little parts relating to trauma / PTSD. I want a mommy so bad sometimes too. I have learned to provide some of those things for myself, though, it is really frustrating sometimes when no one can be my mommy.

For me, when I feel little and need comfort, nurture, protection and safety; I will put on a diaper, grab my three cute, snuggly teddy bears, build a blankey fort, wrap up in super soft, cozy blankies and listen to ASMR bedtime stories and color. It is the closest thing I have to what I want so badly. I call it my little-space.

I hope these suggestions help. It is a wonderful world to explore. Hopefully with time and practice, you can learn to offer yourself these things whenever your little parts show themselves.

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Old Dec 25, 2017, 04:32 PM
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Hi Shattered Sanity,

I just wanted to say I empathize with you so much. I don't have DID, but I do have little parts relating to trauma / PTSD. I want a mommy so bad sometimes too. I have learned to provide some of those things for myself, though, it is really frustrating sometimes when no one can be my mommy.

For me, when I feel little and need comfort, nurture, protection and safety; I will put on a diaper, grab my three cute, snuggly teddy bears, build a blankey fort, wrap up in super soft, cozy blankies and listen to ASMR bedtime stories and color. It is the closest thing I have to what I want so badly. I call it my little-space.

I hope these suggestions help. It is a wonderful world to explore. Hopefully with time and practice, you can learn to offer yourself these things whenever your little parts show themselves.

Thanks,
HD7970ghz

these suggestions are great!

we all ready watch cartoons which goes a long way to helping the littles, but I love your ideas- especially your idea about the blankie fort. I think that's a really cool idea
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Old Dec 25, 2017, 04:33 PM
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we always struggled because alicia (our 9 year old) wants a mommy so bad, but none of us inside don't really feel we can offer her that

and we've tried explaining why she can't have our real outside mommy, but she doesn't understand
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