my man want sme to be more aggressive in bed

I am fine with this...but some ideas to be more aggressive would be much appreciated...how do yyou be aggressive in bed?

Depends what you mean by "aggressive" I suppose! I mean, are we talking full on S&M, or just a little bit of rough and tumble?

Personally, I like the latter option, you know, nails down the back, fingers in the hair and a bit of a tug - even just initiating the whole thing with a bit of blunt talk can up the "aggressiveness" example; "You, pants off, now!" (lol!)

Hope that's a good start!

M_V x

He probably wants you to be more into the sex - wanting it so bad that you are ready and willing to come get it from him...... a few adults toys wouldn't hurt either (pm me if you would like a link to a good adult site). Try a spanking and biting - just enough for him to be aroused, but not to much that it hurts.

Enjoy the sexual time with him and have fun experimenting together....

Put on a dominatrix outfit, matching high-heeled boots, and snap a whip at him when he comes in the door. Bark orders! If he runs away, that's too aggressive. If not, you've found the right level!

Your funny Maven.... thanks for the chuckle

and while I think the sight of such an outfit will defiantly turn on the average Joe - at first
me thinks the act its self might scare him out of the bedroom.

my bf loves it when i grab him and throw him on the bed. I think maybe he wants to be more aggressive with you but doesn't know what his limits are. Like I don't think he necessarily wants you to start making him lick your boots or anything. But maybe next time tell him that you want him to tug on your hair a little. Just playing around with positions can be fun and "aggressive" too. (sorry if this is too detailed or too much for this post) but one time my boyfriend and i were having sex and he was on top, which can get a little boring after a while. So I asked him to kneel back as I went into a backbend. Granted, I did gymnastics and dance for years so that's nothing for me to hold for a while but anything that's just switching it up. Plus, men are very visual creatures. So any position you can come up with that lets him look at every possible inch of your body is going to be good for him.

Guys want to know that they feel good for you and that you enjoy it. If they don't think you're having a good time, they wont have one either. So I agree that I think he just wants you to be more "into it". He might even be satisfied with some moaning/groaning or yelling (if it's possible).

haha I might try that...but I look too sweet and innocent to put on that get-up...I might whip him...and then go ohh...sorry did i hurt you

Remember, you can create a "safe word" that isn't likely to be spoken during your sexy fun, so if something is too hard, too painful or just uncomfortable, you can ease off and try something else.