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Old Sep 28, 2009, 03:06 AM
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Does sex get better as a woman ages?

Is it normal to want it MORE (i didnt think that was even possible..lol) as you age? Okay okay, im not OLD, im only 27, but i DEFINETLY find its increased..or maybe thats current bf's fault.


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Old Sep 28, 2009, 07:05 AM
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i hope so i'm in my early twenties. i heard on oprah (so it has to be true ) that women in there fifties have a great sex life, and are more confident with there bodies. Any fifty sexy ladies want to respond.
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Old Sep 28, 2009, 08:34 AM
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mine sure did! 30's didn't care so much for sex but dang when I hit my 40's it was on! I am now in my 50's and still have a great love of sex lol
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Old Sep 28, 2009, 03:44 PM
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I'm 35 and I think that it has gotten better. I have heard that right before women turn 40, we are suppost to have this really hugh sex drive, and a lot of men don't know how to handle it. You know Rainbow I think it depends on what type of relationship you have with a man. IMO I don't think that casual sex is no where near as good then actually loving someone. That's how I feel about it anyways.
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Old Sep 30, 2009, 09:44 PM
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I'm in my early 20's as well My T says that sex does get better the older you get. I suppose women are more comfortable with themselves and simply know what they like. They are also able to communicate that with their partners If this is so, i'm looking forward to my 50's
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Old Oct 01, 2009, 03:02 AM
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I'm 41 and have a much lower sex drive. I'm extremely depressed about this. As you get older, you lubricate less and the tissues thin out, but I think the pleasure part varies from woman to woman. My gynecologist recommended Zestra, which I've tried before. It's okay, doesn't do much for my sex drive in general, and it's messy. I'm considering asking him for bio-identical hormones, if they're safe (I haven't had time to really look into them yet), and possible other options. Of course, I worry about the risk of breast cancer with actual hormone treatments, but I'd love to feel like I did as a teenager (or even more!).
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Old Oct 02, 2009, 04:49 AM
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YES..... it is normal for a lady to want more sex as she ages - some say it is due to the decrease in her estrogen, therefore, making testosterone the highest level hormone in her body.

- just think of an older female like that of a 18 year old male... sex is a GO!
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Old Oct 06, 2009, 09:06 PM
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Its actually kinda funny really because men peak in their sexuality in their 20s/30s and thats when women have a decreased sex drive but once a woman hits 40s/50s thats when they reach full sex drive and thats when men dont want sex that much anymore. My mom told me one time that my dad used to practically beg her for sex and she wanted none of it and he said just you wait...youll know how i feel when you hit middle age. She said she thought he was nuts lol and sure enough now she tells me shes the one practically begging him for sex. If you think about it long enough though it might be because a woman is more on focus with work and families and bills around their 20s and 30s and men are still ready to just have fun but around 50 is when women have learned at that age to relax and by then things are pretty much stable and its time for them to have fun and for men at age 50...they are settled down so to say.
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Old Oct 08, 2009, 03:42 AM
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I don't really care for the term "Cougars," but it sounds like nature is more pro-older female/younger male couples than the opposite, which is what we usually see.
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